Comments on: Would you cheat to save your marriage for the kids ? http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/296 Save A Marriage Tips Fri, 02 Mar 2012 18:54:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Eternal Love http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/296/comment-page-1#comment-3193 Eternal Love Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:59:40 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/#comment-3193 Cheating is never okay .. you really need to find ways to spice up your marriage .. in addition find ways to communicate your needs and wants to your wife. Seek counseling as well but cheating doesn't save your marriage for your children .. it will only create more problems and also could lead to a broken home. Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel Cheating is never okay .. you really need to find ways to spice up your marriage .. in addition find ways to communicate your needs and wants to your wife. Seek counseling as well but cheating doesn’t save your marriage for your children .. it will only create more problems and also could lead to a broken home.

Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel

]]> By: ducky71j http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/296/comment-page-1#comment-3194 ducky71j Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:59:40 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/#comment-3194 HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!!! Talk to your spouse and then work it out if possible if it's not, getting a divorce or even having a trial separation would be better for the kids than to see mom/dad out screwing someone else then they'll get the message that it's ok. And no matter how much you try to hide something like that it ALWAYS comes out. HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!!! Talk to your spouse and then work it out if possible if it’s not, getting a divorce or even having a trial separation would be better for the kids than to see mom/dad out screwing someone else then they’ll get the message that it’s ok. And no matter how much you try to hide something like that it ALWAYS comes out.

]]> By: Gucci Girl http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/296/comment-page-1#comment-3195 Gucci Girl Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:59:40 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/#comment-3195 so, masturbation is not working for you? How about helping your wife out with the kids so it is not a burden on her. That way she won't be so tired to have sex with you. so, masturbation is not working for you?

How about helping your wife out with the kids so it is not a burden on her. That way she won’t be so tired to have sex with you.

]]> By: Tony http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/296/comment-page-1#comment-3196 Tony Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:59:40 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/#comment-3196 Cheating is never ok. Your looking for an excuse. Try fixing the problem instead of pouring gas on the fire. Cheating is never ok. Your looking for an excuse. Try fixing the problem instead of pouring gas on the fire.

]]> By: cheetah7 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/296/comment-page-1#comment-3197 cheetah7 Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:59:40 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/#comment-3197 Are u looking for some kind of validation here? Because in my opinion, there are NO good reasons to cheat...period. I don't care how u try to rationalize the reasons for cheating. I don't understand why people of that mentality would always try to look for solutions outside their marriage when they have a choice to work on their issues within it. Personally, u either work on your marriage or u leave. There should be no in between. The kids should never be a reason to stay in a bad marriage because sooner or later, they too will get affected. So your question about "cheating to save the marriage", do u know how contradictory that sounds? Are u looking for some kind of validation here? Because in my opinion, there are NO good reasons to cheat…period. I don’t care how u try to rationalize the reasons for cheating. I don’t understand why people of that mentality would always try to look for solutions outside their marriage when they have a choice to work on their issues within it.

Personally, u either work on your marriage or u leave. There should be no in between. The kids should never be a reason to stay in a bad marriage because sooner or later, they too will get affected.

So your question about "cheating to save the marriage", do u know how contradictory that sounds?

]]> By: Just_Curious http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/296/comment-page-1#comment-3198 Just_Curious Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:59:40 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/#comment-3198 Sure everyone will be happy, until they find out you are cheating. No it is not ok to cheat. You should try new things with your spouse. Different ways of having sex, or try new sex toys, buy some porn videos to watch together. Hell, try whatever you can but please don't cheat. She doesn't deserve to have her heart ripped out because you are not happy with the sex. Oh, and have you tried telling her your problem because that maybe why she is not satisfying you. She may think that what she is doing is making you very happy. Cheating will only give you more problems. You will fight when she finds out, Possibly a divorce, and you could lose your children. Isn't that everything that you are trying to avoid? Please think about this before you make your next move. Sure everyone will be happy, until they find out you are cheating. No it is not ok to cheat. You should try new things with your spouse. Different ways of having sex, or try new sex toys, buy some porn videos to watch together. Hell, try whatever you can but please don’t cheat. She doesn’t deserve to have her heart ripped out because you are not happy with the sex. Oh, and have you tried telling her your problem because that maybe why she is not satisfying you. She may think that what she is doing is making you very happy. Cheating will only give you more problems. You will fight when she finds out, Possibly a divorce, and you could lose your children. Isn’t that everything that you are trying to avoid? Please think about this before you make your next move.

]]> By: fred16 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/296/comment-page-1#comment-3199 fred16 Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:59:40 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/#comment-3199 Let's face it here: you know it's not right. If you want to separate from wife and family, be a man about it and just break up. If you do opt for the cheating, don't get caught. You will be in plenty of misery by yourself. But that will increase exponentially if somebody else finds out. Let’s face it here: you know it’s not right. If you want to separate from wife and family, be a man about it and just break up. If you do opt for the cheating, don’t get caught. You will be in plenty of misery by yourself. But that will increase exponentially if somebody else finds out.

]]> By: Ed z http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/296/comment-page-1#comment-3200 Ed z Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:59:40 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/#comment-3200 Get an escort, it is much cheaper in the long run. And you get to try whatever you want without any complications. Get an escort, it is much cheaper in the long run. And you get to try whatever you want without any complications.

]]> By: Norskeyenta http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/296/comment-page-1#comment-3201 Norskeyenta Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:59:40 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/#comment-3201 Nope , don't cheat. You have more activity in your privates, then you do in your brains. Get totally involved with your family. Sit down and talk to your wife. Probably she thinks it is you. If you have stress then do other things to eliminate it. Stop drinking coffee, as it cause stress. Keep your mind out of the gutter. Think of other things, other then sex . These are the reasons not to cheat. You could get a disease. You could get caught and you will in time. You will become an adulterer. You might wreck someone else's marriage. You will destroy your home. Why don't you go and have a vasectomy and that will decrease your sex drive. You will become a dirty , cheating dog. You will violate your promise and your marriage vows. Betray your wife and partner. Bring shame on your children. Don't cheat. Nope , don’t cheat. You have more activity in your privates, then you do in your brains. Get totally involved with your family. Sit down and talk to your wife. Probably she thinks it is you. If you have stress then do other things to eliminate it. Stop drinking coffee, as it cause stress. Keep your mind out of the gutter. Think of other things, other then sex . These are the reasons not to cheat. You could get a disease. You could get caught and you will in time. You will become an adulterer. You might wreck someone else’s marriage. You will destroy your home. Why don’t you go and have a vasectomy and that will decrease your sex drive. You will become a dirty , cheating dog. You will violate your promise and your marriage vows. Betray your wife and partner. Bring shame on your children. Don’t cheat.

]]> By: Kitty http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/296/comment-page-1#comment-3202 Kitty Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:59:40 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/would-you-cheat-to-save-your-marriage-for-the-kids/#comment-3202 Thank goodness I am not married to you! You want to make your marriage a sham and lie to everyone concerned because you won't either sort the situation out with your wife, or leave?! Thank goodness I am not married to you! You want to make your marriage a sham and lie to everyone concerned because you won’t either sort the situation out with your wife, or leave?!

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