Why is it important to save yourself for marriage …or is it?
posted Sunday,
6:30 pm
What is your opinion on having sex before marriage?
This thought came across my mind just recently because I am dating this guy that I am not serious about but very sexually attracted to. I have only had sex with one guy my entire life and told myself the next guy I do it with will be my husband. But now I think Im having a change of heart. Why do you think its so important to save yourself? or is it? What do you think I should do?
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.To wait or not is a completely individual choice. There is no great bonus in waiting or not waiting. It’s up to you. Few people nowadays choose to wait. I did not choose to wait and have never regretted that. I have a fairly open view of sex though and believe responsible adults should feel free to have it as they desire…it’s fun for a reason (one just must be able to handle any possible consequences).
To each, their own.
It is important so that you will have no one to compare your spouse to and won’t realize what a lousy lover you married.
ok–lets look at it this way—you get married–your husband then tells you he’s had sex with 22 different women—-or vise- versa you tell him–not a good start in a marriage—besides–gods law forbids this .
To me it wasn’t important to wait. Sex, to me, is a normal and natural thing that should not be hindered by social titles. It should be hindered by emotions. Preferably a different emotion besides lust.
i think all women should make a whore out of them selfs
My opinion is that it’s crucial. Sexual chemistry in your marriage is too important to leave up to a gamble. That’s just as a bad as marrying someone without knowing if they were previously divorced or have existing children. It’s a seemingly superficial thing to those who don’t know better, but is in reality a major factor than has a significant impact on your life.
I think that if you’re an adult and you take proper precautions in sex, there is nothing wrong with having a lover who is just a lover. You can learn a lot about sex, as well as a lot about yourself. Adults do not have the right to tell other adults what to do in their bedrooms, and only you can make these judgment calls for yourself.
A lot of reasons> You should be fresh and new for your husband. If you sleep around before you are married, what is to stop you after? Sex before marriage makes the sex with the husband just another person to have sex with. It is the ultimate you are giving to anyone and it should be for someone very special.
it’s entirely your choice if you do or you don’t!
But if you do then you have nothing to compare your husband with previous relationships, as to whether the love making is better or worse!
In my opinion it’s better to save yourself, so that you can both learn together, what suits you both, rather comparing what you had previously. But it’s your call & you decide what you want, not what we suggest!
Cheers!!
In my opinion, people who are sincerely in love, communicate, respect, and cherish each other shouldn’t fear having sex.
Furthermore, it is important to be sexually compatible before getting married.
Saving yourself for marriage is important for one of 2 reasons, either you are psychotic about it and want to "save if for your husband" or you plan on marrying a psychotic who will demand it of his wife. It is as normal and natural as breathing, just be smart about it.