what is the best way to save my marriage?
posted Saturday,
10:53 pm
I lied in the beginning over pointless stuff. now after 3 yrs my wife that is a christian is wanting a divorce, I pray God’s spirit moves on her heart and mind.And helps her to forgive me the damage I caused, and allows him to restore our marriage.
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Stay faithful to God, keep praying, and don’t get angry with her. Just SHOW her that you are not the same person anymore.
A friend of mine recently almost lost her husband due to problems in their marriage. He left her this past summer, but now they are getting back together. She stayed faithful and prayerful, patient, and loving and it made the difference.
good luck to you…
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Don’t try to save it. If she has made her mind up, grant her her wish. Play reverse physcology. If it would not work, you would have already gotten rid of a nagging unagreeable wife.
Sometimes, when you try too hard, you loose it.
God helps those that help themselves. Get help, get some marriage counceling for both of you, and a personal one for just you. Amen
you need to have a talk with her…pray and just start getting her to trust you…dont lie to her anymore and show her t hat you would like to change…i wish you all the very best…god bless
Step one get off the computer and go talk to her. Step two help yourself restore your marriage. Even if God is there and cares He is said to help those who help themselves. With out knowing all the details it is pretty hard to tell if the marriage is salvageable.
First and formost apologize with every ounce of your heart and mean it. Second tell her that you feel it would be a mistake for the two of you to part ways without at least trying some counselling with the pastor of your/ her church. Tell her whatever is in your heart, let her know how you truely feel. Honesty is key here, so is humility Good luck!!!
first thing that pops up my mind is compromise &be honest but then when you said she is filing a divorce already,what you can do is tell her you love her and catch up all teh things that you miss and you start a new life,always remind her about the good times that you had before…do the things that you did to her while courting her when you were still single,it flatters her a lot….and be yourself and show her that you sincere and let her feel that you’re sorry and you mean it…
That’s good that you pray for understanding. Remember this one thing, marriage is based on trust and respect. If you can’t trust one another there won’t be any love and if you don’t give each other respect, one of you is always in doubt. Tell her you love her show her you love her and above all pray for forgiveness. May God bless you both!
get god in ur life and he will see u both through it all may god bless u both and i will pray 4 u
As long as you have a job, a car to get to that job and that you are providing a home, food and clothing for your wife and kids. You are doing your part. For some reason I think everybody lies even little white lies….Even Christians. sorry. This may sound very cliche, tell her you love her. I can’t imagine that her life is soooooo unbearable because of something that happened 3 years ago and now she wants a divorce. You all sound like you got married in front of G-d and everybody so of course he will restore your marriage. Good luck I hope you two work it out.
God will help you ,but you have to help yourself too. If you are a Christian continue .You might win her with out a word.Sometimes we just have to live with the mistakes from our past.What ever happens don’t give up the man that God wants you to be.