What is a good way to save a marriage without going thru counseling?
posted Thursday,
7:52 pm
Help Save A Marriage
Save A Marriage Tips
Yes! Help Me Save My Marriage!
In this report you will discover a system that can allow you to save your marriage, no matter how bad things have become.
Enter your details on this page right now for instant download - you will just need to confirm receipt of our email.
Note: numbers are limited for this free offer. Please order today to avoid disappointment.
go through counseling, it’s obvious that a crisis is brewing or you wouldn’t be on this board thinking and asking about it.
Come to some common ground and agree to conpromise on what he wants and what you want.
Talk, Communicate, share. Try to remember what brought you together.
A counselor will suggest the same thing. Communication is key. Plus whatever he/she is doing to make you mad. Let it roll off you back.
Trust me it works
COMMUNICATION TO ONE ANOTHER.
It depends what your problems are of course. If you can make some rules that include respecting each other, don’t make critical comments ever, and stop yelling that will be a start.
If you have a flat tire on your car, you don’t say, "I want to get rid of it." No, you fix the tire or have it fixed. Don’t say anything about ending your relationship. Fix it.
If you are getting stale on your sex life, take time to be together, talk to each other. Reminisce about your young love. Go on a vacation. Maybe it will be just an overnight stay at a motel, but don’t let your work bog you down. Companionship is important for a healthy marriage.
Start to save your marriage NOW. Don’t look back and pick up the negative. Forget the sour times; don’t remind the spouse of past faults.
Begin today to add sweetness in your married life. Be positive.
Why do you fight? All couples have disagreements. Talk over the difference and you will discover the argument was minor. Learn to be silent when you differ.
Don’t let your grievances linger; get it over with. Don’t have a fight before other people or your children. Never hit your mate. Be honest and understanding.
Jealousy has lead many a couple to the divorce court.
Show your companion respect and affection. As one person said, "Be sure it is your wife/husband you’re in love with, not yourself." So many married couples love themselves more than they love their partner.
Every day say to her or him, "I love you." And put meaning from the heart into those words.
Hope this helps~
Lots & Lots Of Great Sex, Spice It Up, Visit Victorias Secret, And Give Him A New Way Of Looking At You.
communication with each other
If its at that point
its to late
just adjust to the missery
if you want to stay in the relationship
Counseling is the best way.
In order to fix things as a couple, both parties need to learn and grow. Only a trained therapist knows how to effectively work through all kinds of problems. They know how to approach the topic, because they are an objective 3rd party. They know how to promote discussion and extract information that normally is too private or embarassing.
Counseling requires pride to be checked at the door. Communication is crucial…if you’re not willing to admit you guys need help, then you’re likely to cycle your behavior until the destroys your marraige.
COMMUNICATING WITH EACH OTHER!
Pray, Talk and Listen to each other, Be nice and patient, Spend some time away from distractions. Be willing to accept each other.
Good luck
To me, the fact that you don’t want to go to counseling says alot about you, and the problems you’re having.