What do you think of girls that save themselves up for marriage?
posted Tuesday,
6:01 pm
I don’t know why I got attacked so much for being this way. Haha.. I guess it’s partly because of my tradition and religion (I’m korean and christian) but I also believe it’s more special if i save it up for a guy that i’d spend the rest of my life with. Don’t post ignorant comments such as that I’m this way because I’m not wanted. I’ve been in a lot of relationships, and of course I’ve been asked to.
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You are wise and mature. Your future husband will be a lucky man. You are also avoiding many potential problems. What if someone gave you an STD ? That would be awful and you’d have to tell a potential husband about it before marriage. What if you did it with a guy and it was very good or he was very large/pleasing and THEN you broke up and when you did marry you were disappointed with your husband’s performance/size ? That would be awful. You wouldn’t know what you are missing if you only have your husband to experience. Also, it is very special for your husband to know that you saved this once in a lifetime special gift for him and him alone. You are wise and special.
That’s good! You will make your husband proud!
You will receive admiration and respect from your future spouse. Stick to your principles, my dear.
One way to prevent feeling "shamed" by your peers is not to talk about it. It’s a private issue. None of their business.
Good for you!! You receive all those ignorant comments because they didn’t save themselves and they know they have a long list of losers in their past. Your husband will appreciate, respect, and love you for this gift for him.
What do I think? I think it’s awesome wonderful. You’re awesome wonderful.
I think it’s foolish.
What if you marry, and then find out that his idea of sex is tying you up and whipping you???? Or he needs to bring a 3rd person into it???
It is critical to find these things out BEFORE you are legally tied together.
You will bring far less baggage and regret into your future marriage. Your children will have an example to follow, you wont be one of those parents that has to tell there kids to do something that they didn’t do themselves. It is so worth it! Every time you have a sexual encounter you give a little bit of yourself away that you don’t get back when the relationship is over. It is great to be able to give yourself whole and complete to your spouse. Also, When you end up talking to your husband about life before him you won’t want to feel like you cheated or feel like you have to hide something for the rest of your life. Continue on this path and you will reap the fruits of your labor for years to come. Also, Don’t wast time with men that don’t believe in god …. or don’t follow him! He can’t fully love a christian woman the way that you need to be loved until they love god first!
i didnt save it for marraiage, i saved it til i was in love. but i still regret it because im not with that person any longer. i think that is the best thing to do. SAVE IT because in the long run it will totally be worth it
Don’t bother about other people. Just follow your instinct. I know you will received a negative comment by people around you. Hey, its 2009 already. We are living in modern age, where women have jobs. And for me, its up to us to do whatever we want with our own MONEY, right.. Just follow your heart. The guy will be respecting you forever…
I think that the parents what their daughters to save it until marriage
I waited to have sex till I was with the person I knew I truly cared about. I didn’t wait till marriage but him and I ended up getting married
I applaud you for staying chaste!
If only I can turn back the time, I would have done the same thing.