what are the chances of an alcoholic stopping drinking in order to save their relationship?
posted Wednesday,
12:15 am
My girlfriend drinks a 5th of vodka everyday and it is ruining our relationship. I really care about her but I have to stand my ground to save my own sanity
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Sorry, but very few alcoholics quit in order to save their relationships. If most of them quit in order to save their relatonships, then a lot more would quit sooner. It’s better for to break it off with her,
The chances aren’t good. Addictions are hard to break, even for love.
does she cook, clean and like sex?
if no, then that’s bad
if yes, then what’s the big deal?
Well I don’t know that you can even help her, I think that she’s going to have to want to stop drinking.. you can’t save her, if its that bad maybe its time move on.. lifes to short.. best of luck
Slim to none.
Dude you have one of 2 chances !Send her to a re-hap or forget her till she reaches the bottom.I had a G/F/ who was the same way she would hide vodka every place in the house .Don’t and I mean Don’t trust her she is only fooling her self ! Check every room in ur house Even the back of the toilet its there favor place and every time she goes to the bath room she takes a swig BE LIVE ME I KNOW
Well.. It depends on how long she has been a daily drinker. If she’s been a daily drinker for a long period of time it might be tough. Have you talked to her about things that may be bothering her or making her depressed? I grew up in an alcoholic home. There is nothing that will make my parents ever stop drinking.
Try taking her out of her element. Say to a new place or different atmosphere. Taking a trip together to allow her to see what else is out there instead of her daily routine. Do something she will absolutely love! Good luck to you… i hope things work out for you.
Good luck…
the only way she is going to stop drinking alcohol is if she decides she wants to on her own. you can’t force someone to do or not do something if they don’t want to. the more you insist she stop, the more she will likely drink. if you can’t deal with her drinking maybe you should move on. perhaps losing you will be the wake up call she needs. good luck.
listen were there is a will there is a way , if she doesn’t want to stop she never will but if she wants to she can , with all you’re support of course, but it is possible, I did many years go.