What are some of the mistakes I will avoid in order to save my marriage.?
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Mistakes?
1. Poor communication – this includes arguing instead of taking things through, or not talking about important things when you should, avoiding difficult topics, and wanting the other to "just know" what it is you want/need from them.
2. Assuming – this goes with number 1, Don’t just assume you KNOW what your partner would or wouldn’t do, would or wouldn’t like, would or wouldn’t want – ask them. There are fewer misunderstandings that way.
3. Not leaving the childish actions behind in childhood – doing things for spite, name calling, the "silent" treatment, tit for tat, game playing, etc. You two are adults and both need to act as one.
4.Wanting that this person will or should be like somebody else. You are individuals and need to get to know exactly WHO they are before getting hitched.
5. Assuming a person will change for the better just by getting married. Or that you will. Make that change before tying the knot, to see if it sticks.
6. Believing that having nothing in common is good – opposites attract. They may but it doesn’t give any comfort long term. You should at least agree on the major fundamentals – kids, finances, life goals, residence, etc.
u cant because that is apart of life
Making mistakes is important. How else would we learn as a society if no one ever made mistakes. My next marriage is going to be much better than the one I just got out of, simply because I learned what my short-comings were, and have taken the steps towards fixing them. Look, don’t be afraid to mess up. Nothing is a better teacher than experience.
its fine to make mistakes but just as long as you learn from them.
obviously don’t cheat and stay faithful.
i think to have a good relationship you need good communication and humour plus that connection.
Youre actually about to make the biggest mistake you ever could, in thinking that there is some way to avoid making any at all. We are all human and making mistakes is simply a given fact of life. Whats important is how you handle them, learn from them and try not to repeat them again. The harder you try to avoid it, the more you will surely make so relax and just figure that you will make some but life still goes on. None of us are perfect. Also count on your spouse making some too so forgiveness is a powerful virtue in a marriage. Also count on whats going to happen will happen no matter what you do or dont do. So making mistakes in a marriage and correcting them together is what actually unites a couple closer to each other. Good luck and relax
(1) Resist the urge to "get even" or to make a point. Eg…She may seem a bit flirty with someone. Do not retaliate by being flirty too. Instead talk to her and tell her you were upset by her behavior. Marriage is not about scoring points.
(2) Do not let inlaws get in the way. In laws can be great but there is a line and let them know it from early on. That goes for your your family as well as hers.
consult and discuss all matters with your hubby.