What are 10 reasons to save sex for marriage?
posted Sunday,
8:31 pm
what are ten reasons to save virginity for marriage?
what are ten reasons not to have sex before marriage.
which do you think overrules the other?
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1. it means you love the person you married because you saved yourself for her
2. its a sin if you do not save it for marriage
3. if you marry someone that is a virgin and your not then when you do have sex you will be too experienced than her or him
4. it makes it even better because you can learn and grow with your wife or husband
5. gives a better connection when both of you are virgins till marriage
6. you cant get sexually transmitted diseases
7. if you had sex before marriage then basically your saying it doesnt matter if your my spouse or my girlfriend for a while ill have sex with you, like sex doesnt mean anything special to you
8. uhmmmm this gets harder and harder…..uhmmmm….if your wife or husband is christian then will look down upon you
9. some people you date later on might not date you because their christian and want to keep abstinence and will think you will pressure them into it
10. idk
Personally I cannot even think of one reason (as long as it’s safe sex)
Try before you buy is my motto as what happens if you are not suited in that area. It’s a bit late once you are married.
I don’t think there are. You have sex when you feel like it as long as you actually know how to protect yourself and how babies are made.
I also think that you should have explored your own body before letting someone else do so
i can’t think of one
1. No accidental pregnancies.
2. To fulfill some antiquated religious expectation.
Scratch #2.
Actually, unless you find someone who is also a virgin before you both get married, then it is pretty pointless for only one partner to be a virgin. If it is for a religious reason, then that is between you and God.
…. well if he/she is a virgin or so call…. and they want to lose it to you after marriage.. then thats great, because 1st time having sex is awkward and weird, it really is…. other than that it’s all bout love now and death do we part.
Im not saving it for mirrage cuz when the hormone kicks in it could be hell.
good reasen: She can sell it for 4,000,000.00
Other than that go 4 it
feels oh so good
SAVE FOR MARRIAGE-
more romantic and meaningfull
no diseases
If you get pregnant you could actully have the baby
your giving your virginity to someone who diserves it
i cant think of 10
DONT SAVE FOR MARRIAGE-
feels good
you need a life
its not a sin
have fun in life.
and when you do have sex with your husband or wife it still feels good cause its your husband or wife
its not supost to hurt when its your husband or wife fucking you
so…. loose it now , then it will feel good when you do your husband or wife lol
so you will remember the first time with him or her lol
wait:
will be the right one
chances are you will be surely ready
If kids will happen it most likely will be planned
Less likely chance of stds
more regular periods
less likely chance of bacteria infections
less complications in relationships
save money on condoms or other contraceptives
Wont have to worry about being a slut
its part of your religion
don’t:
It is not that big of deal
you can get endorphins released that help kill stress
It feels good
everyone else is doing it
You can still wait for the right one
People can have sexual relationships, or real ones or both
theres always something to do
You will have a lot on your mind to explore
It can be special if you want it to
Come on, If your marrying a guy and he cant give u orgasms that would suck to find out after marriage
Whichever you choose is right for you.
1. Moral superiority/self-esteem
2. Reputation
3. Not worrying about STD’s or unplanned pregnancies
4. All those years of saving money not paying for birth control
5. Not having to worry your spouse is comparing you to previous sex partners
6. Not having regret over "that one night"
7. Never worrying that your significant other is only in it for the physical relationship.
8. Reaffirming you and your partner’s committment
9. Throwing your achievement in the face of religious conservatives if you’re not religious
10. If your religion believes in only procreative sex, you probably want to be married before having a child.
1. You can still wait until you’re old enough to maturely handle a physical relationship.
2. Marriage is a contract. You don’t need a license for love.
3. You might be gay, therefore unable to marry.
4. It’s possible to be in love without wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone.
5. Sex isn’t the big deal everyone makes it sound like.
6. Sex really does hurt the first few times for a woman. That’s not so special on a wedding night.
7. Marriage used to be little more than a business transaction. Purity was valued for reasons of male ego and paternity. What’s the point now?
8. Sex can be fun with the right partner. You can enjoy yourself without hurting anyone.
9. You can have sex and have morals.
10. Peer pressure. Just kidding. But you’re going to be curious until you do it. The more practice (not necessarily more partners) you have, the earlier you’ll have good sex and understand how your body responds.
*And for the record, all sex is sex. I don’t understand this new generation of abstinence-only educated kids who think doing it up the butt preserves virginity. (It doesn’t.) You can’t have consensual sex and be a virgin.
You won’t have to wonder who knows more than you do about each other, and who was better than you are. All women are perfectly wonderful in bed, i.e., 98.6°. If you try them all out looking for a certain type you may find you don’t like that type after all is said and done. Or, any type may do for her. Love is what you want. Love only for each other.