ways to save a marriage before its too late?
posted Wednesday,
10:33 pm
Im looking for ways to save a marriage, but I found a site http://www.helpsavemarriagenow.blogspot.com thats good, but does anyone have any tips on ways to save a mariage? Thanks
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communicate. Fight to love not to win
When you BOTH want to save the marriage you….
talk, and share, and open up about feelings….nothing should be off limits…..and dig deep to find a solution that works for BOTH of you.
give it time….it didn’t get in a mess overnight…..so it takes time to find a way back on track.
if you still can’t get a handle on the problem….seek professional help.
commincation, stamy sex, romance, buy flowers tell her or him how much you love them, be the man she or be the women he or she fell in love with. help, do spontanous things.
it has to be a two way street. there can’t only be one of you fighting to save your marriage and communication is a big part. if the two of you can’t seem to do it alone, an unbiased third party (like counseors) can help sift through all the crap and get done to the "real" probs
blessings and best of luck to you and your future
Get a Motel & decorate it Up. Like Having a Sexy nightie, & scented Candles, Its worth every penny you have.
This Might Bring back The Bond,
& even Go dancing if you dance,
Most Best Westerns Have Music,
Good Luck,
It depends on what problems you’re having. However, both people in the relationship need to open about everything.
It depends on why the marriage is failing. Some things can be fixed by increased effort and sensitivity and some things are choices made by an individual. Most problems can be solved by either one or both of these aveneues.
1) Boredom- Lack of Excitement/Lonliness/Bitterness from lack of attention/Resentment from missed dreams and goals
These issues can be resolved by finding out what it is that is lacking for the other partner and finding a way to provide it whether we feel comfortable with it or not.
2) Loss of interest/Desire to move on/Bitterness that the partner refuses to let go of/Character Faults/Disdain for the other partners happiness
These are issues that one partner has to decide to let go of in order to create a favorable atmosphere to allow love, increased attention and new feelings to grow.