Should I save sex for marriage?
posted Wednesday,
10:29 pm
I am concerned about STDs since condom failure is a very real thing with horrifying consequences. As a result, I think it’s a good idea to save sex for marriage. However, being in college, it seems that 99.9 percent of everyone has sex by the second or third date. I’m afraid that no girl will want to be with me me since I don’t want to have a sexual relationship. What should I do? Should I stick to my plan or should I risk condom failure and become sexually active?
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Stick to your guns bro. Save it for marriage if you feel comfortable doing that. There are plenty of girls out there who don’t want to have sex till marriage either. Many of them are probably worried about the same thing as you and are scared that a guy won’t like them if they don’t put out. A lot of girls that are sexually active feel pressured by their bf’s. Also, according to a recent survery, about half of teenage guys don’t want sex in a relationship but feel pressured by society or friends in order to be cool. Sex is for pleasure so you shouldn’t be doing it to please anyone else but yourself or your mate. If you feel uncomfortable about your stance don’t worry. There are many girls that would be happy in a sex free relationship till marriage.
just save ur virginity till marrige.
wait for marriage.
instant gratification may backfire
Wait till marriage!
Spiritually, sex will be much more rewarding if you save it for marriage. You will love knowing that your wife is yours, and that she isn’t going to go out with some other man a couple nights later. Sex outside of marriage will not have the same… peacefulness, I guess. Not to mention, fornication is condemned in the Bible.
If you want to wait until marriage, I’m sure you will find women who can appreciate that.
This condom failure ur talking about is really rare, something like 99.8%.Most women, unless their sluts, want to know a guy and have a solid relationship and to trust someone before having sex.And that whole college thing, about everyone having sex, dont let ur friends or the media fool ya, not that much sex is going on lol
Save it for marriage. Girls should want a guy who hasn’t had sex with some other people before.
If you want to wait until marriage for moral reasons, than stick to it. If you are afraid. stop being afraid and man up.
Just wait until marriage.
do what u feel is right. but i feel i have to address this "condom failure". condoms are honestly almost 100 % effective, the only thing that can go wrong is your own error, not the condoms. but do what u feel
condoms are effective 99,7% of the time. Man Up
Stick to it. Decent girls will respect your decision. Consider also the benefits of waiting for marriage… -no ‘surprise’ pregnancy
-no comparison between partners (especially if you marry a virgin)
-you wife will feel honoured and treasured that you were willing to wait for her
-you’ll be a ‘clean slate’ – your sexual method will be centred on one partner and not be affected by past experience
-definitely no STD concerns
-there will be no feeling that you have cheated
-the one you lose your virginity to will be committed to you, making the first experiences more loving and meaningful.
- although it seems like ‘everyone’ is having frequent and wonderful sex, the truth isn’t even close
I waited and make no apology. My marriage is strong and the sex is fantastic. I couldn’t ask for more. It was a tough wait and required a great deal of self-discipline, but it was worth it. Any man who decides to wait for marriage is a REAL man who is able to control his body and that deserves respect. I hate to use a cliche, but in this case it’s appropriate: "True Love Waits".
just save it for marriage! just like me, im 21 and still a virgin! keep it up and you will feel how special it is to have sex for the first time with someone you really love!
just because you save your sex for marriage doesn’t mean everyone else is doing the same. seriously it seems like everyonee is havingg sex now . so what if you meet the girl you wanna be with forever and it turns out she was extremely sexually active before you guys had even met .
hmm its sweet when a guy saves his sex for marriage cus
Hi,
Is the condom failure the real issue behind it? Or you have some self-esteem or other sexual problems?
If yes, you should seek advice and correct your problems.
Save sex for marriage? What are the guarantees your future wife has no STD?
Virginity sounds very romantic for marriage. It’s a sucker for all girls here. Haven’t you learned by now that practice makes perfect?
Imagine getting married to beautiful women just to find out your sex life together is an absolute crap?
Live all you life like that? Do you think the relationship and love will flourish?
Would you marry any woman without ever seeing her and talking to her?
What would be the chance you were compatible and felt love towards each other?
Because you are prepared to marry a woman without having sex with her.
What are your chances the sex will be at least satisfactory with her?
This works even stronger in the opposite direction. What if a woman finds out you can’t satisfy her? And she is ‘hot’ she has a high sex drive?
The chances are same as in first instant.
Do you get it?
So if you want to be that romantic go for it. Wait till you get married. Maybe you future wife will be greatly disappointed in sex department. But it is fine – for the sake of virginity.
100 years ago you would be a hit. Not today.
You have freedom and opportunity to explore life. What you need is experience.
Something for you to think about.
Wish you luck. You need it
Really man just save it. Just imagine till the day you meet your most beloved woman and get married with her, you can really let yourself go and explode like a bomb and do what you want together with her on the first night without any worries whatsoever. Of course, before that exciting night comes, you will of course have to practice self-discipline. I definitely will be waiting patiently for that night to come too!