Should I leave cheating husband for my ex that still love me? or try to save marriage with no children involve
posted Monday,
3:11 am
I caught my husband a couple times cheating and he always pressure me not to leave him, but I do not have any trust anymore. We do not have any children. Now my ex that i was with for 5 years is still in love with me, he has been contacting me for 10 years as he never got over me leaving. I left because i was young and did not know if he was the one, but now I think he is. Don’t you? or should I try to save my marriage?
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You allready know the answer to your question. If you don’t trust him which in my opinon you shouldn’t if you try to save your marriage it will be for all the wrong reasons and you will resent him, Once the trust is gone you honestly can’t ever get it back especially the way it once was.
Just remember to be careful, I know you’ve known your EX for a long time yet leaving a relationship to jump right into another one is tricky. If you decide to go back to your EX Take some time for yourself first, A short breather starting a new relationship. It’s always a good thing to do.
Good Luck with whatever you decide.
If there is no trust there is not going to be a healthy relationship. I would have left the first time he cheated. As far as your ex goes, it is easy to remember just the good in a relationship as time passes, just remember he is an ex for a reason. Maybe you should give your self some time to just be you and make your decision on who to be with while you are not with anyone.
ok leave the man! you dont deserve that crap! dont go w your ex you need time to heal! being cheated on is hard and painful!
I think that if you leave your marriage that you should do it for you. You need to think that if it is harming your self esteem and other things about yourself than maybe you need some time to your self. I don’t think that it is ever a good idea to go from one relationship straight to another one. I think that’s when people get confused and end up rebounding. Remember if there is no trust then there is nothing. You don’t have to call it quits if that is not what you truly want but you might need some time for yourself to figure out what you need in a relationship. I hope I helped.
That is up to you. I think you already know the answer
Not having trust is a really big issue……If your unhappy now and have no kids then why not makeyourself happy. Who would you rather be tied to the next 18yrs of your life if you happen to become pregnant?…..Take a leap…….you will always wonder…is he really where he said he’d be…….hes late! Whos he with. Goodluck
Leave your cheating husband for yourself. Take some time to figure out what you want and then make the decision about the ex. You need time on your own!
get out get out…matter fact..RUN out. marriage is nothing these days. I’m on you on that one. if men answer this question ignore them chances are they are in a divorce and trying to keep you in a controlled relationship. ECH. men disgust me go back to your dating days its better.
Seeing as you’ve caught your husband cheating on a couple of occasions and don’t trust him I would not suggest that you stay with him. Trust is a requirement of a marriage and obviously he hasn’t earned your trust. I’d leave him if I were you based upon his past history.
But leaving him just so you can go out with your ex isn’t a reason to leave unless you are in love with your ex or think that you could fall for him again. Sex on the rebound doesn’t always work out.
Good luck.
That marriage is over. Rarely in life do you get a second chance at happiness. So i would leave him cheating, but first i would get it on tape that he cheated and take him to the cleaners. then i would find my old flame and try again.
save your marriage if you love him. it will be worth it, maybe someday have kids and a real happy family. you have a chance of happiness. think about the bad times as well good times.
If you are interested in saving your marriage, check out this site. It helped me out alot when i was going through something similar.
http://www.squidoo.com/save_my_relationship
Cheaters rarely stop. Divorce your husband. Then if your ex is free go back with him. With no children you have nothing to stay with your husband for especially since he is a cheater.
You know you need to leave this marriage. Even the Bible says that you can divorce if your spouse is unfaithful.
"he always pressure me not to leave him, but I do not have any trust anymore." It’s hard for you, I know, but this ‘pressure’ shows that you need time alone, to find out who you are as a person and where you want to go. This takes a least a year after you separate.
Getting into another relationship before you take care of yourself will end up badly. Finish one relationship, work on your self, and then begin again. You’ll be stronger and choose more wisely.