Save my marriage & Save my darling?
posted Sunday,
12:49 am
My darling wife isn’t interested in foreplay experiments other than the normal fingering or clitoral stimulation. She doesn’t even encourage me do exercises to be fit for the final act daily. I tried to educate her by books and reading articles on foreplay. But I failed as she is orthodox in thoughts. Our life is not intimate now after 22 years of marriage! Slowly, I become unfaithful in my thoughts and looks to other women. Can anyone help me save my marriage to be more committed?
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I’ll help you, dude.
Just give me your address and your wife’s name,
and I’ll come over and bring her back to life.
Hope I helped you.
It’s been this long and you’re now realizing it’s a problem? Accept her for her decisions; she’s your wife.
enjoy what she allows. try to perfect that. if you please her enough its easy to take it a little furthur.
ignore your wife , and show less interst in her .
You should encourage her to do the foreplay.
you’ve gone that far….meaning you have accepted it that way for that longest time ……why change and make your marriage miserable?
you’ve already been trying to save your marriage and your darling for 22 years! come to think of it.
Who the hell do you think you are kidding? After 22 years she is bored to death having boring sex with you. Why don’t you read books on how to please your wife outside of the bedroom so maybe she’ll want to spend more time with you. Sex isn’t everything. And I’m sure you are no longer the stud you think you are. Try being a loving husband and good friend first.
You don’t need to "educate" her as if she is a dog!!! first of all, your current situation must me the consequence of something… what has been happening between you two?? haven’t you tried to consider that she must be even less satisfied than you are?? you are thinking just about "fingering" and stuff like that when maybe the source of the problem is communication?, empathy? and understanding??? anything else Beyond the mere sexual act?
And don’t even try to take this situation as an excuse and cheat on your wife now!! That would very selfish and even immature for a man of your age…
Try to listen what she has to say and DON’T JUDGE her of having traditional thoughts… im sure there’s a lot to save in in your marriage, even more after 22 years!!!!!
Good luck and sorry If I spoke strongly but men sometimes are so thoughtless….