Comments on: Save marriage? http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/12 Save A Marriage Tips Wed, 28 Jul 2010 20:23:38 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: older&wiserforit http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/12/comment-page-1#comment-2 older&wiserforit Mon, 29 Jun 2009 22:14:09 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/#comment-2 Stand up for yourself and tell her that your not going to sit back and take this!! She is in la la land right now and she thinks this 21 year old is going to give her all the things she is missing in her marriage. HA, wait until she wakes up and finds out she had what she needed all along, but.... that you have left and started your life over without her. She is living in a fantasy right now, this is lust, NOTHING more. Yeah, she's going to be cold hearted because that's what she is for doing this to you. She is going to miss you after you leave, cause that is exactly what you should do. She is using you and hurting you. You don't deserve this. There is someone out there for you that will treat you with respect, she sure isn't. Don't blame yourself for her stupid mistakes. She is in the wrong here, not you. Stand up for yourself and tell her that your not going to sit back and take this!! She is in la la land right now and she thinks this 21 year old is going to give her all the things she is missing in her marriage. HA, wait until she wakes up and finds out she had what she needed all along, but…. that you have left and started your life over without her. She is living in a fantasy right now, this is lust, NOTHING more. Yeah, she's going to be cold hearted because that's what she is for doing this to you. She is going to miss you after you leave, cause that is exactly what you should do. She is using you and hurting you. You don't deserve this. There is someone out there for you that will treat you with respect, she sure isn't. Don't blame yourself for her stupid mistakes. She is in the wrong here, not you.

]]> By: rich2481 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/12/comment-page-1#comment-3 rich2481 Mon, 29 Jun 2009 22:14:09 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/#comment-3 she slept with him, hard reality,, I would move on and find someone that will appreciate you,, she slept with him, hard reality,, I would move on and find someone that will appreciate you,,

]]> By: Haylyn 1 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/12/comment-page-1#comment-4 Haylyn 1 Mon, 29 Jun 2009 22:14:09 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/#comment-4 Yea, GET THE FUCK OUT OF THERE RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yea, GET THE FUCK OUT OF THERE RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

]]> By: sup http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/12/comment-page-1#comment-5 sup Mon, 29 Jun 2009 22:14:09 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/#comment-5 you could always look at the idea of an open marriage. Is she just with these guys for the physical relationship or is she really in love with them. It sounds like you two have different levels of sexual desire. you could always look at the idea of an open marriage. Is she just with these guys for the physical relationship or is she really in love with them. It sounds like you two have different levels of sexual desire.

]]> By: sarah071267 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/12/comment-page-1#comment-6 sarah071267 Mon, 29 Jun 2009 22:14:09 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/#comment-6 She doesn't respect you or your relationship. If she did, she wouldn't cheat. Do you want to stay with someone who shows little respect for you? Tell her that if she is going to behave like that, you want her out of the house and away from your kids. Her lack of morals is not a good example for the children. She doesn't respect you or your relationship. If she did, she wouldn't cheat. Do you want to stay with someone who shows little respect for you?

Tell her that if she is going to behave like that, you want her out of the house and away from your kids. Her lack of morals is not a good example for the children.

]]> By: Better Advice from HJ http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/12/comment-page-1#comment-7 Better Advice from HJ Mon, 29 Jun 2009 22:14:09 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/#comment-7 Kick her slutty behind out of the house. You and the children deserve better than this! Kick her slutty behind out of the house. You and the children deserve better than this!

]]> By: physandchemteach http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/12/comment-page-1#comment-8 physandchemteach Mon, 29 Jun 2009 22:14:09 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/#comment-8 Well, you are a wonderful person to keep putting up with her, but you are an idiot to stay with her. She has already cheated on you and is planning to do it again. Do you have the word "stupid" tattooed on your forehead? Things are not going to get better wtih her. She has no respect for you or the vows you spoke. She doesn't even care about her children. Kick her out and get a divorce. You can find someone a lot better out there. You can find someone who will really love and honor you. Well, you are a wonderful person to keep putting up with her, but you are an idiot to stay with her. She has already cheated on you and is planning to do it again. Do you have the word "stupid" tattooed on your forehead? Things are not going to get better wtih her. She has no respect for you or the vows you spoke. She doesn't even care about her children. Kick her out and get a divorce. You can find someone a lot better out there. You can find someone who will really love and honor you.

]]> By: olderbutwiser http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/12/comment-page-1#comment-9 olderbutwiser Mon, 29 Jun 2009 22:14:09 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/#comment-9 Sad to have to tell you this, but your marriage has been over for years now. You want it to work, I know, but it takes two wanting it to work.....she's already gone, and you can't make it happen alone. Take your two kids, love them, and raise them. There's a nice lady out there that will love you, and help you, when you have healed from this terrible hurt. Good Luck my friend..... Sad to have to tell you this, but your marriage has been over for years now. You want it to work, I know, but it takes two wanting it to work…..she's already gone, and you can't make it happen alone. Take your two kids, love them, and raise them. There's a nice lady out there that will love you, and help you, when you have healed from this terrible hurt. Good Luck my friend…..

]]> By: TexasKitty http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/12/comment-page-1#comment-10 TexasKitty Mon, 29 Jun 2009 22:14:09 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/#comment-10 You know the answer to the question... Be strong and be the bigger man for your kids. Make sure you can pay alimony after the divorce..or actually in your case, if you can prove adultery, you may have full custody. Take Notes! Keep Dates and Times and Receipts.. Luck! You know the answer to the question…

Be strong and be the bigger man for your kids. Make sure you can pay alimony after the divorce..or actually in your case, if you can prove adultery, you may have full custody.

Take Notes! Keep Dates and Times and Receipts..

Luck!

]]> By: papasahn31 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/12/comment-page-1#comment-11 papasahn31 Mon, 29 Jun 2009 22:14:09 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/save-marriage/#comment-11 Dude, you are a dumb ass! I hate to be so harsh but anyone who tolerates that is mentally handicaped. Show yourself some freakin respect and leave her whoring ass. Dude, you are a dumb ass! I hate to be so harsh but anyone who tolerates that is mentally handicaped. Show yourself some freakin respect and leave her whoring ass.

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