We have come to a definite fork in the road and she has said that she will NOT let me go peacefully and she has made it clear that she won’t ever stop drinking. Yes drinking is a problem. And no, I do not drink. This is not a matter of not having the balls to tell her, this is a matter of a nearly "fatal attraction". This woman could be dangerous once I tell her. I already know that it was a mistake marrying her so I don’t need to read that observation over and over in your welcomed inputs. I hope to get sincere responces.

I was served divorce papers from hubby earlier this week. The weird thing is hubby and I talked and we were going to put our life back together and eventually have our life the way it was. I got my MIL and FIL to go to the house and get more of my clothes. I went to speak with hubby I told him that I wasn’t preggers bc the DR had done blood work. We did more talking and he said he loved me and would think on the things we discussed. My mom went to visit the girls today and when she got back she told me that he and her talked and he’s gonna want to see the divorce to the end. To set up the story we had brung a 3rd party into the bedroom to llive out a fantasy. But bc the condom broke we all thought I was preggers so my hubby filed for divorce. I have called everything off with the other person. I’m not the type of gal that believes in divorce. I don’t want the divorce and want to know of ways to save the marriage. One reason is bc of the kids we have together…..

My parents are divorced and my mom lets my dad pick us up on Saturdays and Sundays. Sometimes I don’t want my dad to pick me up but when my mom calls and says that she’s going to come or my dad can’t pick us up, I start crying and I don’t know how to stop. I try to hide it from my parents. What should I do?

My wife filed for a divorce. I signed a letter stating that i wouldnt contest the divorce but we slept together after she filed. she still wants a divorce and i dont. Should i just tell the judge that we slept together and try to contest it anyway?

its getting two regular for my likeing i dont know weather iam been selfish but is not a glass its abottle sometimes vodka cider the the other thing that makes it worse is that her daughter (not mine) also has started to drink more ive asked for the not to drink in the house as i dont like it iam at point of dirvorce through it

I know all the right things to do, but am having a very hard time and just want to stuff my face. Please only nice helpful suggestions. I really need to stop this but am hurting so much
How do you find the motivation to work out and eat healthy when you feel so bad?

We have been separated for 1 year and he just now filed the divorce papers. I got a call today from him saying that his lawyer told him he doesn’t have to pay me any more and that his bah has stopped. I have heard that it doesn’t stop till the divorce is final but I am not sure. So I’m kinda confused about the whole situation.
I have tried to call a lawyer but I cant see one till Monday. And also I don’t just care about the money and we can’t save our marriage because of the things that he has done when we were. But when he owes me money for throwing my stuff out because his new girlfriend is moving in then yes I think I should care about it.

Married 2.5 years, together 9 (dating+marriage)
I was asked to leave the house a week ago

I went through a depressed/ill period, where I gave up and stopped trying to do anything

My husband’s "friends" and family called me a "parasite".

Now he has started believing them and is SOOOO bitter against me.

I don’t want what he has, if I never got a thing out of him again, other than love, I would be happy.

But,…he will barely even talk to me, maybe a minute, litterly.

I read online above all not to argue, and to just kindly agree with anything he says.

Does that work??? If so, or not, What (else) does?

I don’t want to lose my Best friend, marriage, home, pets, etc…

Help!