I let their father know where they are?

Just found out my husband was cheating on me and I’m pregnant with our second child. I’m planning on divorcing him after I give birth but I’m wondering if anyone else has been in this position and how do I move on with my life, can things get better for me?

Have been married for a little over 5 years and dated for about 2 years before got married. We have a 3 year old daughter. I wanted to remain a virgin tell we married I know my husband had some experience before we started dating but did not want to know details and still do not. My husband is the one wanting the divorce and think in a way it relates to my sexual beliefs. It is the only real thing we have or do fight over or least as in big fight. He wants sex more then the once a month that we have now and to have sex in more then the normal position (Missionary). These other things he wants to try just seem dirty and unnatural. I love my husband very much he is a very good provider and I have been able to stay home with our daughter like a good mother should. Now things are going to be a mess my family will wonder why we are divorcing and my daughter will be hurt by this. Also I will not be able to stay home with her any longer if single will have to work and put her in daycare. Please can someone give suggestions on how to fix this I love my husband very much and it hurts to think that will lose him.

I don’t want a divorce anymore. When we split, my wife was angry at me and i was angry at her. I don’t want it anymore. However attornies are involved and because of accusations flying around, the attornies don’t want us to talk to each other. I don’t want this divorce anymore. I don’t know how my wife feels because i can’t talk to her. The attornies have made it now where we can’t trust each other and us throwing accusations each other’s way. Plus our families think we’re both better off without the other. How can I stop this craziness? I don’t want to divorce her but she seems to still want it….I think. I can’t talk to her though because too many legal things have been drawn up and if i do there might be some sort of restraining order issued because it’s gotten to the point where our attornies told us to leave each other alone. What can I do? I don’t want to divorce her. I know she has bad mouthed me to everyone. Can this be fixed? if so ladies, how?
it’s been 3 months since we separated. she initiated it. I wanted it to at time of separation.
she had an abortion (her choice) and went off on the children after the abortion. i told her to leave the kids alone, it’s not their problem. they needed shielding from adult issues. i guess she figured i cared more about them than her. i just did what i would hope she would do if i went off on the kids like that.

I’m not older than twelve or younger then 10 and my parents are getting a divorce. My dad does not want to but my mom needs a break. I really don’t waaant this to happen. How can I stop them. And if there is no way what do I do.

If a husband is confused about divorce, like some days he said he really wants it and some days he said he is not sure if he will file, should I keep pursuing him and make him see that he should come back to the family? He has already moved out 2 weeks ago. Is it totally on me now to convince him to return or should I just leave him alone and dread that he will eventually make a bad decision and start filing the divorce?

I really would like to have him back. We both messed up and we need to forgive and forget, and rebuild our marriage. I don’t know what is the best strategy to deal with a man who is in an unsure stage right now. I feel I have a 50-50% chance. What is that one winning strategy to do right now to get him to drop the divorce idea? I know he has gone to see an attorney but he said he is still not sure about filing, he is only finding out the process.

In highschool I dated the same girl for all 4 years. We broke up briefly toward the end, then decided to get back together and got engaged. We split up again 8 months later.

The next girl I dated for 3 years, we split up for 6 months, then we got back together and promptly got engaged. We got married less than a year later. Then divorced the next year.

My current situation is…. I’ve been dating a girl for 4 years, we have a child together. We recently broke up for 4 months, and now we are trying to start over. I can see myself wanting to do the same thing and marry her within the next year.

Does the cycle ever fucking stop?? I just want to be done damn it. I want my white fence and the tire-swing in the yard, and just call it a life. Happily ever after…. *sigh*

We have been married for 5 years, and he has been cheating for 16 months. We have an 18 month old baby boy. He left 5 months ago after I found out. He has refused marriage counseling, refused to end the affair, so we started the divorce process 2 weeks ago. He is also being very generous in the divorce, I assume because of guilt. Now, he says he has made a big mistake, and wants to fix it. He wants me and our son back. He wants to come home and start over. I don’t know if I can give him another chance. I had finally accepted the fact that our marriage was OVER. Should I give it more time, and see what changes he is willing to make?