Comments on: OK nice people of yahoo would you rather save yourself till marriage?

By: Bella

Bella — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 17:02:21 +0000

I am a divorved mom of 4 in my early 30s. I decided before I married to stop having sex until I married. When I told my then boyfriend, not happy with my choice to be abstinent, he supported me and soon proposed because he knew and respected the value I put on myself. Although we are now divorced after 14 years, we have a great relationship with eachother and I still have that value of myself. The man in my life now and I have decided to wait until marriage. Although very difficlult at times, we both value and respect each other and support that choice for our lives. So far so good.

By: Angel

Angel — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 04:16:36 +0000

Yes,I’m in my thirties and still saving it.If it’s a turn off for the guys ,oh well.It’s not like you have a disease to give them.If a person can’t respect you,you have to respect yourself,who else is going to do that for you.Stick to your morals and don’t let people be mean to you.They have to me and the more they are the better and stronger it makes me.Hope this helps!

By: Dana

Dana — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 04:16:36 +0000

yeah. totally. religion and other stuff

By: marissa

marissa — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 04:16:36 +0000

not necessarily til marriage, but i’m definitely waiting til i find the right person. i also would have to willing to handle the possible consequences and the other person would too. I’m not about to have sex with someone, risk getting pregnant and then him leave.

By: Amz =P

Amz =P — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 04:16:36 +0000

I don’t want to save myself for marriage because I have no idea when that’s going to be and I don’t even know if i ever will get married due to my sexuality

By: AmericanDreamGurl

AmericanDreamGurl — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 04:16:36 +0000

yes.
i’m a christian so that’s what i believe plus the respect thing. gurls don’t need to be given there self’s away like their not special or somthing!

By: animalmedicine2

animalmedicine2 — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 04:16:36 +0000

yes, it is morally right, but as for me its as much a religious reason as a personal reason. I only want to give that special part away to my husband on our wedding night…think of how special, how romantic, how sweet that would be to share that together.