Ok, how do i stop my hands from shaking filling out these divorce papers?
posted Sunday,
11:02 am
Ok, it is time..I have wanted this and i still really do..but now that the funds are in tact and all it is ,is a matter of filling out these documents..i can’t get my hands to stop shaking..I want this more than anything. How did you guys build up the nerve to finally fill out the divorce papers and file them with the court?
Thanks everyone ♥ Smooches!!
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Your hands are simply shacking because you are questioning your self with this decision. Have you and your soon to be ex talked about the problem you had and if so you should have complete confidence in the decision you are making. Hopefully its just the jitters and you’ll do whats best for you.
(Also its nice to talk to someone close to you about the divorce.)
JUST DO IT. YOU HAVE BEEN WANTING THIS YOU HAVE TO FORCE YOURSELF." DO IT IN FEAR" OR ANXIETY JUST GET IT OVER WITH. sorry for all caps im not yelling at you sweetie!!
Its a normal humanreaction. You can never stop the shaking…just fill them out to the best of your capability orhave someone write in the stuff for you. Try to relax…I know it is easy to say but seriously.
Xanax
It’s perfectly normal to be nervous, because it is a big, scary change. Some people fear change more than death. Just take a deep breath, remember the WHYs of the situation, and slowly, calmly sign the papers.
You didn’t come to this realization overnight, and if you truly believe it is the right thing to do, you can do it!
If your hands are shaking, I’d rethink the divorce. It’s an outward symptom of having second thoughts. Put the papers away in a drawer for a few weeks, and then take them out again. If the hands start shaking again, then you might want to seriously rethink this. If after a few weeks the hands are calm, then move forward.
Pros and Cons works every time and no i have never been divorce but I’ve been through a hell of alot relationships still looking for miss right if she even exists
A nice tall glass of gin and tonic on the rocks should steady the hands. Proof read it again tomorrow before signing.
Get a drink and put on some really wonderful music to celebrate, and invite some friends over, and have a "signing of the divorce papers party", and then after you sign them, you will have all the support you need and party also!!!!!
Congratulations!!!!!!
It is finally over, time for a new year and a new life!!!!!
Yippie!!!!!!!!!
Just sign them and be done with it. When the time comes for me to fill my papers out I will be SKIPPING all the way to the lawyers office!
Ted B. said it best.
You need to learn to relax..yes, emotions run high..but find someone or something special to do before you fill out the paperwork..share your feelings with someone who you trust and will listen to your fears and concerns..you can do this..
R u serious Tracie? Jesus! I am extremely afraid to get divorce too! I just stay and make the best of it. For better or worse right? Crazy A
Edit: I will just keep in mind a 2nd beautiful wife, secretly inside my mind, thats all I can do.
Take a deep breath…
and think how lousy….
your soon-to-be ex is