My wife thinks marriage is to much work andwants to seperate, what can i do to save our marraige?
posted Wednesday,
3:03 am
she thinks because we may argue at times our marraige is not working out and i want to work on things whith her but she won’t I love her more than life and want to save my marriage
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You need to sit her down and get to the REAL root of her issue.
Is she seeing someone else? It doesn’t make any sense that some arguments are making her throw in the towel. Something deeper is going on.
You cannot save a marriage she isn’t willing to work on. Perhaps the two of you can go to conselling together, and you can suggest she go and discuss her issue with someone on her own.
Try to be supportive, but don’t be a doormat. She is walking all over you right now, and she will continue to do so as long as you let her.
do as she asks….if its meant to be then she will come back…..she has a really bad attitude and doesn’t love you if it’s all to hard
If she’s made up her mind then accept it and move one. She’s not going to be happy no matter what you want.
You can make goals and you and you wife can follow them!
there’s nothing you really can do if shes not ready then just give it time she might loss up you never know shes just not ready and if you love her that much you can wait for her to be ready and when she is it will be worth it!
you cant make someone love you make them stay. if shes not happy then do the right thing and let her go. she may realize then that she don’t want to go and trry with you. but making her stay will only make things worse.
thats hard to answer but i would say try married counciling and see if that works or try and tell her how u feel and tell her u want this to work out. find out why she is not happy in the marriage…
I would suggest counceling. When your argue I take it it is not in a healthy way. The next time you get two get in a spat…breathe deep..listen to whatever it is each person has to say. Listen, keep your voices low and if it’s getting tense bring the "argument" up later. My husband and I get into spats even yell occasionally. But we never go to bed mad at each other. Read books or look online for advice on relationships as well as communicating… that’s my adive to you. good luck. I commend you for wanting to work on your marriage. It’s to bad a she doesn’t want to so if you want to make it work you may have to work for it quite a bit then she even will. Keep trying I guess.
You could try to put the magic back in to your relationship. Be spontaneous – not boring. Surprise her with thoughtful gifts and actions. Valentine’s Day is coming up. Plan something really special to surprise her. If you have kids, arrange a baby-sitter for the evening (overnight!)
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I hope it works for you – you’re right to try!!!
i would take her out to a realy romantic restort (NO kids) bond with her let her know how much you want her and love her. spend some time alone with her! and make her feel special! NO sex. well make that up to her! if i were a guy id do that