Comments on: My son was in a coma and his wife is trying to get a divorce- how do i stop her? http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483 Save A Marriage Tips Tue, 08 Nov 2011 13:55:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Martin P http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483/comment-page-1#comment-4218 Martin P Fri, 21 May 2010 11:03:59 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483#comment-4218 You are being pretty selfish. Fortunately, there is nothing you can do. You are being pretty selfish. Fortunately, there is nothing you can do.

]]> By: presleygirl http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483/comment-page-1#comment-4219 presleygirl Fri, 21 May 2010 11:03:59 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483#comment-4219 you play no role in their marriage, and you can't stop it. you play no role in their marriage, and you can’t stop it.

]]> By: Diamond Jersey http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483/comment-page-1#comment-4220 Diamond Jersey Fri, 21 May 2010 11:03:59 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483#comment-4220 I would just like to say that his wife is one cold hearted bitch. When she said I DO, that meant till the end. I wish your son all the best. God bless you and your family. I would just like to say that his wife is one cold hearted bitch. When she said I DO, that meant till the end.

I wish your son all the best.

God bless you and your family.

]]> By: colee http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483/comment-page-1#comment-4221 colee Fri, 21 May 2010 11:03:59 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483#comment-4221 you never said, is he still in a coma? If he is it has been five years how long does she have to wait. I feel bad for your son but she has to make herself happy too you never said, is he still in a coma? If he is it has been five years how long does she have to wait. I feel bad for your son but she has to make herself happy too

]]> By: nerakian http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483/comment-page-1#comment-4222 nerakian Fri, 21 May 2010 11:03:59 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483#comment-4222 you can't stop her if that is what she wants to do. I don't understand how someone can vow to love someone for better or for worse and not really mean it. You need to devote your time to helping your son and let her do what she thinks she has to do. I can't imagine being in your situation and you have my total sympathy. you can’t stop her if that is what she wants to do. I don’t understand how someone can vow to love someone for better or for worse and not really mean it. You need to devote your time to helping your son and let her do what she thinks she has to do.
I can’t imagine being in your situation and you have my total sympathy.

]]> By: It's Just My Opinion http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483/comment-page-1#comment-4223 It's Just My Opinion Fri, 21 May 2010 11:03:59 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483#comment-4223 Sadly, I don't think you can stop her, but he would have to be able to sign the papers unless she got a court order stating that by means of the fact he is unable to make a competent decision, she can have the divorce without his consent. Why would you want someone to stay around who will begin to resent him for keeping her down? She wants other things in life, and she deserves to be able to live her life. She stayed for 5 years, I think she did more than some women would do. Sadly, I don’t think you can stop her, but he would have to be able to sign the papers unless she got a court order stating that by means of the fact he is unable to make a competent decision, she can have the divorce without his consent. Why would you want someone to stay around who will begin to resent him for keeping her down? She wants other things in life, and she deserves to be able to live her life. She stayed for 5 years, I think she did more than some women would do.

]]> By: Poppet http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483/comment-page-1#comment-4224 Poppet Fri, 21 May 2010 11:03:59 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483#comment-4224 She has every right to continue with a life. It's been 5 years! Not 5 months. Let her go. Besides there isn't anything you can do about it. She has every right to continue with a life. It’s been 5 years! Not 5 months. Let her go. Besides there isn’t anything you can do about it.

]]> By: nikeofsilence http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483/comment-page-1#comment-4225 nikeofsilence Fri, 21 May 2010 11:03:59 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483#comment-4225 Try talking to her face to face. But in my opinion you sould let her go and have her divorce your son. She's no good and did not turn out to be faithful and loyal. Maybe one day your son will find a real woman who will love with no reservations no matter what happens. Let that evil woman go. IF she was loving she wouldn't be dating and seeing other guys for a relationship. Try talking to her face to face. But in my opinion you sould let her go and have her divorce your son. She’s no good and did not turn out to be faithful and loyal. Maybe one day your son will find a real woman who will love with no reservations no matter what happens. Let that evil woman go. IF she was loving she wouldn’t be dating and seeing other guys for a relationship.

]]> By: Jules http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483/comment-page-1#comment-4226 Jules Fri, 21 May 2010 11:03:59 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483#comment-4226 Ultimately, and sadly this is not your choice, nor your place to stop her. This is their marriage, and she is gonna do what she is gonna do. Wouldn't you be happier to know that if or when your son does wake up and she is not there, then he can go and find someone that will truly stick by his side.....Think of this as a glimpse into the future. It's a sad situation for everyone, and I am so sorry that you have to go through this. Good Luck Ultimately, and sadly this is not your choice, nor your place to stop her. This is their marriage, and she is gonna do what she is gonna do. Wouldn’t you be happier to know that if or when your son does wake up and she is not there, then he can go and find someone that will truly stick by his side…..Think of this as a glimpse into the future. It’s a sad situation for everyone, and I am so sorry that you have to go through this. Good Luck

]]> By: litomilyfwthn http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483/comment-page-1#comment-4227 litomilyfwthn Fri, 21 May 2010 11:03:59 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/483#comment-4227 I hate to say it, but you can't stop her and you shouldn't really try. If she is still willing to help and support him when he does recover from this, then that is what is important. 5 years is a long time to go without the affection and arms of the man she once loved. Who knows, had this terrible accident not happened and she had fallen out of love with him by now anyway, you wouldn't want him to stay married to her. He doesn't need support from people who don't care, he needs people like you that love him and are willing to stick things out in sickness and in health. That's what a real marriage is anyway. I hate to say it, but you can’t stop her and you shouldn’t really try. If she is still willing to help and support him when he does recover from this, then that is what is important. 5 years is a long time to go without the affection and arms of the man she once loved. Who knows, had this terrible accident not happened and she had fallen out of love with him by now anyway, you wouldn’t want him to stay married to her. He doesn’t need support from people who don’t care, he needs people like you that love him and are willing to stick things out in sickness and in health. That’s what a real marriage is anyway.

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