Can I save my parents marriage?
posted Wednesday,
3:56 am
well i use to live with my mom sister uncle and grandma. but my mom and dad got remarried and we moved away and now they might get divorced again and we’re gonna have to move back and i hated living with my uncle and grandma.
anybody have any advice on what i should do.
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Okay, first thing is first, you can’t "stop them" There is a time in anyone’s life where you’re just tired of someone. Why force them to be together for your own sake? You love your parents don’t you? I mean, wouldn’t you want them both to be happy? I know that you have moving back to living with your uncle and grandman. However, you never know what they think of you being in their place. You might be the entertainment and joy they have, as corny as it may seem.
Your parents unfortunately have moved on. Everyone deserves love no? Put yourself in their position, would you want to be with someone who you don’t like and your kids wanted to stop you?
There are some things in life where we are taken into stress or events that aren’t very pleasant like you and your living situation with your uncle and grandma. However, these are things that tests us and can make us see how strong we are as a person. This is just an obstacle, don’t you think?
It’s something you have to overcome and that is why if you are in school, continue on, move on with your life by getting a fancy apartment somewhere. After all the pain, I’m sure their would be gain, right?
As far as your parents go, I mean be happy for them! They re-married and got offered another chance for love. They other people that they enjoy being with. There are times when parents do stupid things like divorce, however, as their child and for all those years they took care yof you, all you can do is support, hun. Even if it seems so disgusting, you’re their child and I think that if they have your support, they would be the happiest parents in the world.
I wish you luck and happy holidays and I hope the next year would be an awesome one!
Take care!
don’t waste your time trying to think of what you can do because literally there is nothing you can do. you’re only their kid. the problem is never the kid. though some kids may blame themselves for it. but the problem has something to do with them. maybe if i knew your parents i could tell you more, but if you don’t want to live with your uncle and grandma just try telling your mom that. but expect to hear what you don’t want to hear because if she can’t afford a place of her own, you’ll just have to stick it out. wish i could be more help. best of luck and hope you have a merry christmas!!
I understand how you hate living with your uncle and grandma but maybe you should tell your mom that. I think that you should just let your parents get divorced if that’s going to happen but talk to them about not getting remarried if they divorce. Personally I’d rather keep my parents divorced if they’re happier that way just because they’d fight to much and my mom or dad might be miserable.
You cannot keep them together. But, for your peace of mind, you can write them each a letter or one for both of them to read together. OR you can just talk to them either together or separately. You may be able to ask them to consider family counseling for a few months before they make a final decision. But it is not your fault and it is out of your control.
live with dad bc you cant stop them