My Christian girlfriend had sex before with her ex-boyfriend, but wants to save it until after marriage now?
posted Saturday,
12:43 pm
My Christian girlfriend and I agreed to have a God-centered relationship. We’ve been going out for a month or so. Since pre-marital sex is a sin in the Bible, she really wants to hold off on it until after marriage. I’m fine with that. It’s just the fact that she mentioned that she had sex with her ex-boyfriend a lot. It made me feel uncomfortable and I’ve been kinda down recently. What should i do?
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I wouldn’t worry about it. She trusts you enough to share that with you, so that’s a good thing.
If its still bothering you try praying about it and maybe sitting down and talking to her about how your feeling. TRUST ME!!!! She will be glad that you came to her about it and build her trust for you even more. She will listen to you, too, just don’t get made at her about her past relationship, then she wont listen. Be understanding of her and she will do the same for you.
Everyone makes mistakes and it seems like she is trying to do better and be better for God and even you.
~Good luck!
What a bitch, i think she MIGHT be using you or your a rebound guy.
hahah! that sux.
umm….yea it should make you uncomfortable. and it seems like maybe she just doesn’t like you(but i doubt that). maybe she just became christian after what she did with her othe bf. it would be weird if you asked, but u could.
We all sin and fall short of the glory of God.
I understand how you feel, I’ve been in that situation and its tough. But the good thing is that she is getting it right with God, herself and you. You just have to forgive and forget, just like Jesus does. In His eyes, all sins are equal. And while its hard for us humans to grasp that, you must to be happy. Prayer does wonders.
Why don’t you ask her why its different with you? Don’t act like it’s a big deal though since you said you agreed on not having sex while you’re together. Just tell her you’re curious… and also tell her that you don’t really want to hear about her and her ex-boyfriend’s sexual experiences.
well i’m not sure how old she is of if this is normal for that type of girl , guess its up to you and her to decide if your going to wait or not . you have a reason to be upset but you weren’t her bf back then so not alot you can do about whats allready been done .
There’s no way i could deal with that lol…..it’s obvious she’s just using you as a rebound guy to get over her ex. I would suggest finding a new girlfriend. Good luck