Comments on: my boyfriend and I fight and have gotten physical how can we communicate better and save our relationship? http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/118 Save A Marriage Tips Tue, 08 Nov 2011 13:55:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Hellraizer http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/118/comment-page-1#comment-1066 Hellraizer Thu, 27 Aug 2009 12:52:10 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/#comment-1066 You made the right choice of living with him before taking it to the next step and getting married. You might think you love him, but now you really know what your relationship will be like in the future. You need to sit down by yourself, make sure you a relaxed, and think about your relationship with him for a few hours. Ask yourself if it is really worth saving, and ask yourself if you really do love him, or is it just puppy love. If you really do love him, then go see a counselor, or you could tell him that you want to take a break and let him miss you and remember how good he had it. Just remember, just because you love someone, doesn't mean you were mean to be together. You made the right choice of living with him before taking it to the next step and getting married.

You might think you love him, but now you really know what your relationship will be like in the future. You need to sit down by yourself, make sure you a relaxed, and think about your relationship with him for a few hours.

Ask yourself if it is really worth saving, and ask yourself if you really do love him, or is it just puppy love.

If you really do love him, then go see a counselor, or you could tell him that you want to take a break and let him miss you and remember how good he had it.

Just remember, just because you love someone, doesn’t mean you were mean to be together.

]]> By: Aaron http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/118/comment-page-1#comment-1067 Aaron Thu, 27 Aug 2009 12:52:10 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/#comment-1067 If he's hit a girl, he's scum. Move on with your life and find a real man. If he’s hit a girl, he’s scum. Move on with your life and find a real man.

]]> By: yeeeswss http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/118/comment-page-1#comment-1068 yeeeswss Thu, 27 Aug 2009 12:52:10 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/#comment-1068 talk about it. a long serious talk always works talk about it. a long serious talk always works

]]> By: Scot B http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/118/comment-page-1#comment-1069 Scot B Thu, 27 Aug 2009 12:52:10 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/#comment-1069 break up you are incompatible break up you are incompatible

]]> By: Becky K http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/118/comment-page-1#comment-1070 Becky K Thu, 27 Aug 2009 12:52:10 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/#comment-1070 dump him dump him

]]> By: # 1 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/118/comment-page-1#comment-1071 # 1 Thu, 27 Aug 2009 12:52:10 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/#comment-1071 You can try counseling and if that doesn't work consider that this may not be the man or relationship for you. This could be a toxic 'love' and maybe you guys have just gotten comfortable and are afraid to move on even though moving on might be the best thing. You can try counseling and if that doesn’t work consider that this may not be the man or relationship for you. This could be a toxic ‘love’ and maybe you guys have just gotten comfortable and are afraid to move on even though moving on might be the best thing.

]]> By: seals http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/118/comment-page-1#comment-1072 seals Thu, 27 Aug 2009 12:52:10 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/#comment-1072 End it... The only worse you can do in a relationship is cheat... End it… The only worse you can do in a relationship is cheat…

]]> By: TRISHMATT http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/118/comment-page-1#comment-1073 TRISHMATT Thu, 27 Aug 2009 12:52:10 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/#comment-1073 Stay away from those you fight with it wont go away. Oil and water. Stay away from those you fight with it wont go away. Oil and water.

]]> By: Matt S http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/118/comment-page-1#comment-1074 Matt S Thu, 27 Aug 2009 12:52:10 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/#comment-1074 you're only chance is if you go to couples therapy and each take anger management training, and/ or expressiveness and communication training. But even that's a stretch. I suggest you break it off before someone gets hurt. Sorry. you’re only chance is if you go to couples therapy and each take anger management training, and/ or expressiveness and communication training.
But even that’s a stretch. I suggest you break it off before someone gets hurt. Sorry.

]]> By: ldj_01930 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/118/comment-page-1#comment-1075 ldj_01930 Thu, 27 Aug 2009 12:52:10 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/my-boyfriend-and-i-fight-and-have-gotten-physical-how-can-we-communicate-better-and-save-our-relationship/#comment-1075 If he is physically abusing you get away from him. He won't stop and it will get worse. If he is physically abusing you get away from him. He won’t stop and it will get worse.

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