Men… what would you do to save your marriage after your wife caught you?
posted Friday,
3:42 pm
fooling around with her best friend right in your own home? She’s devastated, hurt, and almost hates you, and you want to change and show her that you will never ever do it again. How would you prove this to her, what would you say to make her trust you again? Hypothetical of coarse…
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It’s too late, the divorce is on. Should have thought with your UPPER head instead of the lower one.
well no. nothing will ever help.
You’ve ruined it. Once a cheater always a cheater.
uh…dont do it in the first place.
Well I’ve been in that situation. Not fun! I ended the friendship with my "best friend". I was plenty hurt and angry at my husband, but he insisted there was nothing serious going on so I gave him the benefit of the doubt and we moved away, but as this was the second time that he’d crossed the line with one of my friends, the distrust was deep and our marriage died a slow death for another 5 years before ending in divorce.
Whatever she wanted. Whatever it took to build the trust back up.
For future reference. When your married – that means you don’t get to "fool around" with other women. Dumbass.
she may one day forgive you if she truly loves you. but i will have to honestly say she will never forget what u have done to her. Her guard will always be up and worrying if you will do it again.
For me – there would be nothing he could do. I’m not saying that to be ugly. I know that after the initial hurt, pain, and anger subsided I would be OK – just would not choose to be married to someone who could do that. The trust and respect (two things I consider very key in a marriage) would be gone. I would not want to look at him and think about all of the ‘drama’ that occurred – so I would be happier without him there as a reminder. Also, why in the world would I want to open myself up to that kind of devastation by trusting him again? No thanks.