I need to save my marriage, don’t want him to leave. What can I do?
posted Monday,
5:20 pm
I’m had told my hb, don’t leave, I’m want save our marriage. But he reply me, if leave me I’ll have happiness? Because he not love me. I’m can’t receive this answer, because I’m very very in love with him. Who can tell me? How I save my marriage now? I’m can’t lose my hb!!!
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u can’t save something when the other person has told u he doesn’t love u anymore. when u refuse to accept it it can hurt u emotionally. sad as it is u need to get some self respect, and move on. will do no good to put any energy into saving a marriage when he doesn’t love u. it would all be for nothing.
I’m sorry to tell you but if he already told you that he does not love anymore is too late. I think you might be able to do better anyway, I know it’s hard but once he said that I don’t think he is coming back.
If you speak Spanish let us know, so we might be able to give you some suggestions.
If he TOLD you he doesn’t love you, then he doesn’t love you. What else is there to say? I know it’s sad but it is what it is.
you can’t make someone love you… if he doesn’t love you anymore ..you cant force him to stay.. or you cant force yourself into his life…. accept the fact that your marriage is breaking… move on…
Hey sad, wish I could tell you exactly what you want to hear, but cannot. If he wants to go, let him. You cannot lose what is already lost. For some reason, he wants out. When you really love him, you will want his happiness. If leaving is what will give him happiness, then let him. Also, he may realize later that he does love you, and he is just going through some uncertainty in his life right now. If you force him to stay, both of you will be unhappy.
My heart goes out to you don’t want to leave your husband or want him to leave you but he says that he is not in love with you and if you leave their will be happiness. human nature is very serious thing because we all have the desire to love and to be loved and if the person has fallen out of love with you there is really nothing you can do to save your marriage.
What you can do is find happiness for your self and let go and let god do the rest god can heal broken heart. It doesnt matter that you love him or not the love you once had for one another is gone. i am trying to tell you to go on and live your life because he will go on and live his so why should you be misserable god made us to be loved and to give love because god is love. Do what you think that will be best for the both of you.
best of luck.
Please check out Bob and Charlyne Steinkamp. They have a restored marriage after being divorced for about two years. They have a website and send devotionals everyday encouraging men and women to stand for their marriage and their spouse’s salvation. Check out their archives.
https://rejoiceministries.org/devotion.php
I highly recommend that you sign up for Doreen’s Devotionals called Doreen’s Daily Delights.. These are awesome. http://marriagerestorationministries.org/
Here’s another website for people standing for their marriages. They have a men’s forum where you can talk to other men standing for their marriages. There is chat every Friday night. http://www.faithandmarriage.com/
Check out Jimmy and Karen Evans. They have a weekly tv show that discusses marriage. Their shows are on the internet that you can watch. Jimmy is excellent. Jimmy gives very practical guides on how to have a successful marriage. http://www.marriagetoday.org/
Also check out this link concerning divorce and remarriage. I think you will be surprised. Many churches are blinded to the truth and even encourage people to divorce. Satan is tearing the church and marriages apart.
http://www.biblicalresearchreports.com/divorceandremarriage.php#hatedivorce
Good luck and God Bless!
is he Rich ??? is that your problem …? don’t worry you will get half of everything …..get a life …..he doesn’t want you