If someone cheats, why the hell would they want to save their marriage?
posted Wednesday,
10:59 pm
Why is it only AFTER they are caught they want to allofasudden save the marriage?
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cause its AFTER they are caught that their marriage is in jeopardy
IDK
I think they should "save" the marriage b 4 hand
but
what ever
SANDY EGO- um what exactly does it mean then??????? I think if my husband wants to sleep with someone else he dam well knows he wont be married to me anymore!
You answered the question already. Because they got caught! Nobody worries about saving the marriage when the affair is going good and nobody knows what is going on.
Why would someone ask a question after reading another question? Just move on.
Why not? Just because you have sex with someone else doesn’t mean you don’t want to be married.
sometimes its your 20/20 hindsight that can make you realize what you care about most and all-of-a-sudden it is now in jeopardy. I’m not excusing or condoning cheating, merely explaining that train of thought.
i would think that the only reason they want to save the marriage,would be because it didn’t work out with the person that they were having the affair with, and did not want to end up alone, but there are people who make mistakes, and do realize they made a mistake.
Because they didn’t realize they would feel guilty when they were busy making themselves feel good.
I think they realize the grass only LOOKED greener on the other side.
thats what i always think.
They shouldn’t even be cheating if they are gonnna have to work hard to "save" the marriage afterward. If my husband cheated on me and then tried to save our marriage i would be like uhh hell naww
and to think people actually except the apology and stay with them
disgusts me.
When I was the other woman my lover didn’t want to save his marriage. I later found out he actually left information for her to find so that he could dump the burden of on her to divorce. I dumped him back in her life!
My ex had an affair and she was caught and she was done with me and just wanted to be friends, she took 6 months to file ? later she wanted to no if I was over her ??? She divorced me by the way and if she wants me back she has a lot of communicating to do with me and to also prove that she will be a good person again ??
But I would give her that chance under those conditions. Some call me nuts but nobodys perfect.
because loosing there wife was never part of the plan. just because they went and got a piece of a** from someone else doesn’t mean anything to them, just a few minutes of enjoyment,notice i said few minutes, because they don’t realize that that few min. of pleasure could ruin the life they have. There other half takes care of them and that is there life, they don’t won’t to loose that. I am talking as a wife.
That’s just not so, at least not in all cases. If you’re really committed to your marriage, you can still make a mistake, become depressed, whatever, and end up in someone else’s bed. That doesn’t mean you should give up on your marriage, does it? I think marriage is far too important to walk away from just because of a mistake.
Well that’s a lousy attitude….
People screw up, people make mistakes at emotionally bad times, they do things that they wouldn’t otherwise do and sometimes you get yourself into situations that you feel you have no way out of until you get caught.
Do you love your spouse LESS when they make a mistake? Clearly this is a HUGE HUGE mistake. A mistake that SOME people couldn’t and wouldn’t forgive. But if someone is truly sorry enough, penitent enough, wanting to take full responsibility for and TRY and fix and make amends – you don’t think they are WORTH forgiving to save a marriage that you’ve possibly invested YEARS of your life into?
At what point does the person we love make a mistake that is forgiveable and what is unforgiveable. I happen to believe that we are required to FORGIVE everyone and that is the only way we ourselves heal too. Whether things can be put back together again (like humpty dumpty) time alone will tell.