How would you stop a divorce that seems unnecessary (no abuse, infidelity or alcoholism)?
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show your partner that you love him/her. show care. show affection. show humility. cheer up.
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No matter if there isnt love there, then it wouldnt be worth saving.
If you’re not one of the two people getting the divorce you should not stop it. YOu probably don’t know what the cause is but I’ll bet it’s serious.
Divorce, in my experience, always involves two people. Hence, it cannot be stopped by one person. Only both parties
Depends on who wants it stopped – sometimes there is nothing you can do – believe me.
You need a divorce so i can be with you
I’m sorry to tell you that you can’t stop a divorce if the other person wants it.
In the USA, you cannot. If one party wants to be divorced, then they can get the divorce.
In NY State, living separate lives for 1 year grants you a divorce. We never even stepped foot inside a court room. The lawyers took care of everything.
You can’t "stop" it. It is as "necessary" as the parties involved feel it is.
if someone wants a divorce then there must obviously be a problem somewhere…if the problem isnt visable sit down with your partner and ask what they are feeling…
Tell her that your willing to figure things out and work on problems. that you do want to stay together. IF THAT DOSENT WORK>>>>then hide copies of the paperwork or change the date of the hearing on her paperwork. If at all possible break into the courthouse and delete records….
In this country, you can’t make someone stay married to you who does’t want to be married to you. That would be almost like slavery. Unfortunately, you can’t stop a divorce just like that. Are you a party to this divorce? If so, try to talk about he situation with your mate…seek counseling, hire a good lawyer to help. If you aren’t a party, then stay out of it as it isn’t your business to "stop."
The question I would ask, is "why the divorce in the first place"? If you have simply "grown apart" or something like that, then suggest that you guys attend a marriage counselor. If you have been married for a while, it would seem worth it to give it a go rather than throw it away. If you are sure there is nobody else involved, then I would be all up for trying anything. If you are churchy people, sometimes there are people there that you can talk to.
Hope this helps.
Cheers
Communication.. communication… communication. Talking is they key to every relationship. If 1 person just doesn’t want the relationship anymore, for no apparent reason… then it’s pretty much over with & no amount of talking will change that person’s mind. However, there’s always a reason for everything. So that being said… whom ever is in the relationship, on the recieving end of the divorce, needs to find out why the other is filing. Then after the WHY is found out… then can one take steps in correcting the issues at hand, one at a time.
Si hay amor se detiene cualquier cosa, si no hay no lo puede detener
IF THERE IS LOVE YOU ARE ABLE TO STOP THE DIVORCE, BUT IF DON`T HAVE IT YOU CAN´T STOP IT
marriage counseling, if that doesn’t work, maybe its not meant to be. Love has it’s own mind. it doesn’t always end with a battle, but I think it makes it tougher than for something obvious. it’s not as easy as people make it sound, who can just "let it go"?
Without knowing any details, understand that most marriages break up because of poor communication between the two. If you are sure there has been no infidelity and drugs of any kind are not involved; then, determine your natural communicatin style and your mates. Then look for any differences in the styles, there likely will be, then work to validate and understand, not criticise any differences. Find a place online to do the Myers-Briggs personality indicator and go from there. You could be surprised how powerful this understanding of natural communication pattern differences can be. All the best!
if its your own marriage tell her you want to fix things and see a counsellor Tell her you still want her and love her…
Well obviously someone feels it’s necessary…no one wakes up one morning and thinks"hmmm nothing better to do..think I’ll go file for divorce". If you are the spouse you have to have some kind of inkling as to why your wife no longer wishes to remain married to you..sit her down and have a serious discussion w/her….I’m sorry, but you’re being such a typical man..you think those are the only 3 reasons someone would be unhappy in a relationship?Maybe she feels lonely, ignored, unloved..or it could be she just doesnt love you anymore…harsh, but it’s a possibility…do you want to spend your life with someone who doesnt love you as you love them? If the divorce is between 2 people you know…Isuggest you stay out of it…no matter how well you think you may know someone…we never truely know what happens behind closed doors…
You can’t. If one party wants out, they are allowed to get out.
You mentioning wanting to stop it leads me to believe you think you can control it. If this has been your habit…to be a controlling person….that might be why you’re getting divorced. Just a thought.
Why would you want to do that? If the love isn’t there anymre, theres a reason for that and no point in continuing an unhappy relationship. Something obviously went wrong and unless both people want to change there is going to be no reconciling. Don’t interfere…unless you are the one getting divorced..and well in that case, find a lawyer!
Abuse, infidelity, alcoholism actually are also unnecessary reasons. If they are necessary, then people should drop a lot of the lies in the wedding vows.
As for on how to stop a divorce that seems unnecessary.
Living separately in two separate houses is a good idea, another good ideas would be separate beds and separate rooms
Couples who lived a long time with each other don’t see much of each other regulary. Your great grandparents probably sleep in separate beds and/or rooms, not because they don’t love each other, but because they love each other they are willing to give personal space to their spouse.