Comments on: how to save my marriage what do i do i need some help? http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/230 Save A Marriage Tips Fri, 02 Mar 2012 18:54:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: blazingwater http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/230/comment-page-1#comment-2447 blazingwater Thu, 03 Dec 2009 13:36:51 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/#comment-2447 Have you though about adopting an older child? maybe 7-10 they are still young and will be around at least another 8-10 years satisfying your wife's wanting for a child, it won't cost you as much for baby needs, diapers, bottles, formula etc. The child is also old enough to travel a bit to see some sights for that need. And you will not have to worry about your wife's health in actually giving birth. You will not be as old when they reach 20 so you can still cherish that time with them. Of course communicating all of this with your wife will be a big step. It is up to you and your wife what all the possibilities are and how you would evaluate each one. Have you though about adopting an older child? maybe 7-10 they are still young and will be around at least another 8-10 years satisfying your wife’s wanting for a child, it won’t cost you as much for baby needs, diapers, bottles, formula etc. The child is also old enough to travel a bit to see some sights for that need. And you will not have to worry about your wife’s health in actually giving birth. You will not be as old when they reach 20 so you can still cherish that time with them. Of course communicating all of this with your wife will be a big step. It is up to you and your wife what all the possibilities are and how you would evaluate each one.

]]> By: kittyrogers http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/230/comment-page-1#comment-2448 kittyrogers Thu, 03 Dec 2009 13:36:51 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/#comment-2448 You need professional counseling in the worst way. So does she. And at 49, she probably can no longer become pregnant. At least she should not, anyway. You need professional counseling in the worst way. So does she. And at 49, she probably can no longer become pregnant. At least she should not, anyway.

]]> By: davbig2 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/230/comment-page-1#comment-2449 davbig2 Thu, 03 Dec 2009 13:36:51 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/#comment-2449 lick her pussy more often that will make her happy lick her pussy more often that will make her happy

]]> By: singh http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/230/comment-page-1#comment-2450 singh Thu, 03 Dec 2009 13:36:51 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/#comment-2450 Try to convince her by the same logic Try to convince her by the same logic

]]> By: patricia_hyland72 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/230/comment-page-1#comment-2451 patricia_hyland72 Thu, 03 Dec 2009 13:36:51 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/#comment-2451 Try being foster parents...there are tons of good kids that need a home Try being foster parents…there are tons of good kids that need a home

]]> By: Andrew http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/230/comment-page-1#comment-2452 Andrew Thu, 03 Dec 2009 13:36:51 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/#comment-2452 Tell her the way you feel. About everything, kids, vacation, and getting back together. And then go to a psychiatrist if that doesn't work. Good luck Tell her the way you feel. About everything, kids, vacation, and getting back together. And then go to a psychiatrist if that doesn’t work. Good luck

]]> By: lol_des http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/230/comment-page-1#comment-2453 lol_des Thu, 03 Dec 2009 13:36:51 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/#comment-2453 49 is old for a woman to have a baby it is possible but with the health risks and complications not worth it for the child or mother. Adoption isn't that hard to do at your age? Why don't you try talking to her about how you love her and maybe get a beautiful puppy together or sponsor kids overseas that you can visit one day to see how you changed their lives.. This shouldn't ruin your marriage....it should strengthen it. 49 is old for a woman to have a baby it is possible but with the health risks and complications not worth it for the child or mother. Adoption isn’t that hard to do at your age?

Why don’t you try talking to her about how you love her and maybe get a beautiful puppy together or sponsor kids overseas that you can visit one day to see how you changed their lives..

This shouldn’t ruin your marriage….it should strengthen it.

]]> By: Julez http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/230/comment-page-1#comment-2454 Julez Thu, 03 Dec 2009 13:36:51 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/#comment-2454 Tell her what you said up there. She will understand. It's all about truth! woo! truth! Tell her what you said up there. She will understand. It’s all about truth! woo! truth!

]]> By: butrcupps http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/230/comment-page-1#comment-2455 butrcupps Thu, 03 Dec 2009 13:36:51 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/#comment-2455 Get professional counseling. I'm with you, 49 is too old to start over with a new baby. Get a puppy or kitten together. Get professional counseling. I’m with you, 49 is too old to start over with a new baby. Get a puppy or kitten together.

]]> By: ForeverLove http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/230/comment-page-1#comment-2456 ForeverLove Thu, 03 Dec 2009 13:36:51 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-my-marriage-what-do-i-do-i-need-some-help/#comment-2456 She needs to realize that her time for having babies is over. I know she must miss it, and she might really want one, but you are right. She is too old. Maybe you could talk her into doing foster care? Maybe adopting an older child? It is sad that people always want to adopt a baby instead of a child. The older children need homes and families too. She needs to realize that her time for having babies is over. I know she must miss it, and she might really want one, but you are right. She is too old.

Maybe you could talk her into doing foster care? Maybe adopting an older child? It is sad that people always want to adopt a baby instead of a child. The older children need homes and families too.

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