http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-a-relationship-with-too-many-past-lies/79 Save A Marriage Tips Fri, 02 Mar 2012 18:54:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-a-relationship-with-too-many-past-lies/79/comment-page-1#comment-640 os Wed, 05 Aug 2009 04:09:03 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-a-relationship-with-too-many-past-lies/#comment-640 You've got to work on rebuilding the trust.. that is the only way you can make it work this time. You’ve got to work on rebuilding the trust.. that is the only way you can make it work this time.

]]> http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-a-relationship-with-too-many-past-lies/79/comment-page-1#comment-641 rache Wed, 05 Aug 2009 04:09:03 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-a-relationship-with-too-many-past-lies/#comment-641 really, i think you need couple's therapy. don't brush it off as something negative. it might save your relationship. really, i think you need couple’s therapy. don’t brush it off as something negative. it might save your relationship.

]]> http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-a-relationship-with-too-many-past-lies/79/comment-page-1#comment-642 etsu_nara Wed, 05 Aug 2009 04:09:03 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-a-relationship-with-too-many-past-lies/#comment-642 You could try to talk to him. Just sit down with him and talk about what has went wrong in the past, and how you could avoid it. Believe me, I know it's hard, but it'll will definantly help. You could try to talk to him. Just sit down with him and talk about what has went wrong in the past, and how you could avoid it. Believe me, I know it’s hard, but it’ll will definantly help.

]]> http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-a-relationship-with-too-many-past-lies/79/comment-page-1#comment-643 loli Wed, 05 Aug 2009 04:09:03 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-a-relationship-with-too-many-past-lies/#comment-643 Trust is earned, it's too bad you are already living together when there is this issue still BUT it is not too late. Build the trust and encourage openess by not being too judging. Forgive each other for the past. Wish you the best. Trust is earned, it’s too bad you are already living together when there is this issue still BUT it is not too late. Build the trust and encourage openess by not being too judging. Forgive each other for the past.
Wish you the best.

]]> http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-a-relationship-with-too-many-past-lies/79/comment-page-1#comment-644 Pami S Wed, 05 Aug 2009 04:09:03 +0000 http://helpsaveamarriage.com/blog/how-to-save-a-relationship-with-too-many-past-lies/#comment-644 The best and only way is to re-commit to eachother and forgive eachother for anything and everything in the past and start over. Leave the past in the past and start on clean slate. It takes a lot for both people to overcome the hurts and trust issues, but it can be done if both of you are wanting to. Starting going on dates again, without the kids, and spend time reconnecting. Pretend that the past relationship you had is over and re-build a new one from the ground up....and be prepared to respect eachothers possible insecurities and validate them by proving them wrong. If you need outside help, get a couples counselor. The best and only way is to re-commit to eachother and forgive eachother for anything and everything in the past and start over. Leave the past in the past and start on clean slate. It takes a lot for both people to overcome the hurts and trust issues, but it can be done if both of you are wanting to. Starting going on dates again, without the kids, and spend time reconnecting. Pretend that the past relationship you had is over and re-build a new one from the ground up….and be prepared to respect eachothers possible insecurities and validate them by proving them wrong. If you need outside help, get a couples counselor.

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