how to save a marriage?
posted Monday,
6:16 pm
my wife says she still loves me but is no longer in love with me. she says there’s no one else she wants to leave me for or anything though. i was hoping for tips or links to save a marriage because i love my wife and we have three kids also and i just don’t want it to end like this.
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I’m really not sure I can help but I’ll try…
I think I don’t love my husband anymore, I’m still coming home because he wants to save the marriage and I want to give it a try. But until now, i still feel passive, like nothing will change, like, life is boring with him. I don’t know how to break it up. Like I want to put some spice into our lives. Maybe if he’ll do the extra effort, (because he isn’t) maybe that can change my view. I guess I just need a little support from him. I need more love, care, and make me feel so special. I guess you can try to do my needs to your wife…..
unfortunatly there is nothing you can do when a women says that there is nothing you can do about it…. when they are in love with you, you can run them over you can do whatever but when she says i do not love you anymore thats the end of the road….. sorry
Check out focusonthefamily.com – they have resources and counselor that you’ll be able to call for a free consultation and then they’ll direct you to a person near you.
don’t listen to that one chick for real…you can always try to save a marriage and sparks can always come back on….
Try themarriagebed.com for some great tips on certain things. Maybe check out the movie thats in the theatres right now Fireproof and take that 40 day challenge thing. i think the link for it is fireproofyourmarriage.com
keep trying sir! wanting to fix it is the first step!
I agree with "confused!"
Marriage is an commitment that most people don’t understand that falling in and out of love has no place in marriage. Love is a decision and not a disease or the local carnival that comes in and out of town. Women sometimes become emotional. What;s great is that you want to save your marriage!! Begin to understand that the five love languages: physical, quality time, acts of kindness,gifts and affirmation. You have to find out which is her first language and her second and begin to communicate in!! Go to counseling if she is open to it.
Is she going through stress right now? Maybe she tells you over and over that she needs certain things, (they may be small, like not having to constantly ask you to do something you’re supposed to do, romance, I could go on and on) and you don’t pay attention? I’m asking, not being accusing. Maybe she’s going through a rough time. You may be able to save your marriage. You need to sit down and talk calmly. The only way to be happy is honesty. I hope it can work out for you and her! Good luck to both of you.
Does she even know how you feel? You need to have an open respectful conversation. Find out what SHE feels is missing. Find out what SHE needs from you. And she cannot give you what you need if you don’t tell her.
Just DON’T give up on her, or your marriage. Get counseling! There are MANY resources.
(And see this movie…http://www.fireproofyourmarriage.com/ )