How to increase my wifes sexual drive and save my marriage?
OK i am a 26 your old married guy since almost 1 year, my wife used to have a very high sexual drive before marriage but i never had the whole ordeal, with the penetrtion, we wanted it to be special , so after we got married it tended to be reluctant to want to have sex or till its no more, its almost 7 month and we dont even have foreplay, and i tried every thing , romantic mood as in candle lights and music , and wanting her in the moment but didnt work , we went to a sexoalogy docter but she wouldnt cont. the strange thing is she says that he gets very very frustrated when ever i try to come near her , PLS i am looking for ANY kind of advice , its really breaking my marriage down , and i u have any funny stuff to say or reply with dont , this is a major problem in my life and i want to solve with any means, HELP ANY BODY..!!!
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hi ,my friend .first of all . women do not change . if she is the way she is now .your marriage ;is in trouble .you can make all the dinners you want .meet her from work .phone her ever hour . buy her gifts .nothing will ever change .if you have ;not done so yet .tell her how you fill .perhaps you need to go down ;a new road .
sex isnt everything!
take her away
try 2 make it lik wen u 1st met
tel her u love her an mean it
Quit trying so hard. Start jerking off in the shower like a lot of married guys do but don’t want to admit. She’ll wonder why the sudden change and come to you. Keep playing it cool and eventually her drive might come back. I’m married so i hope this helps. Our sex life is strong but it’s mostly because we find other areas to connect and then feel so good about one another that we naturally want to make love. Her sex drive is her problem hun, don’t let it be yours.
Ok the first thing you should care about and think about is do you love her? Sex is a big part of a relationship but often other things fall into damaging it example hormones,social issues at home,daily life and how you two intereact with each other. If sex is the only issue and your thinking about ending you marriage cause of just that maybe you two arnt ment for each other. You should just let life continue dont even bring sex up dont talk about dont try to have it with her try that for a few months and after that see where you are with her. You may have to go buy a few pornos for yourself for the time being. and maybe in that time waiting youll find the answerer of why she isnt wanting it try to look for reasons why she isnt happy and see how you can help. Hope this helps
I have been married 22 years, and our sex life is more than wonderful!! I have always been open to sexual fantasies. My husband and I use movies, toys, various other sexual things. If your relationship is ready and you are mature for sexual fantasies then act them out. I will say my husband would never want, nor would I another male in the picture. I do have a best friend, (first and foremost my best friend), who get involved with us from time to time. There is nothing else but the pleasure of sex. I know my husband would never cheat on me nor would I him. You have to be ready, remember this. We both are professional people too.
Find a wife who’s into you. Your current one isn’t.
Sounds like she married you for convenience, no sex before marriage,( very sexual but no penetration ) wow- most women give the guy all he wants until after the "I DO " then
she cuts them off– True story– buddy of mine was a virgin, meet girl ,feel in love waited until marriagefor full blown sex,( she also wanted it to be special )came to find out she wasnot a virgin ,like she told him -he was pissed , they stayed together for three years then divorced she just refused to have sex with him– hope you come out better than my buddy- seems ya’ll need to talk and talk deep over non-sex issuses— good luck