How do you stop thinking about your husband when going through a divorce?
posted Sunday,
12:46 am
We were having a sexual relationship till yesterday. He is just a jerk and so I stopped it. I Love him but I cant be with him anymore. I don’t want to think about him any more! I started the divorce Nov. 30th 2009 Any advice?
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Smoke some crack.
You Love him and will not stop thinking about him.He may be a jerk but you married him and it wasn’t because he was a jerk then was it?You loved him.That won’t change any day soon and even when you are not with him;You will think of him because you Love the jerk.
There is only one way. Move on and start meeting new people. I’ll just add some extra, maybe unwanted advice.
This time around just try and leave out the sex until after you found somebody who will really love you for who you are. I tell you, keeping sex out of the equation sure weeds out the mama’s boys who only have one thing on their little brains. Like Steve Harvey says in his book, "Act like a lady, Think like a man." Apply the ninety day rule.
This will also help you to forget the other little man who was only good for one thing.
Its going to be hard. You will never forget him.
Love doesn’t turn on and off like a light switch.
Start dating and keeping busy.
you wont forget but as time goes on you wont think about him as much
and one day you’ll wake up and realize you haven’t thought about him at all.
Yeah. stop having sex with him.
Your case is complicated because you still love him. my divorce was easy because love and sex had vanished ealrier.
Only another kind GENTLEMAN will make you start all fresh again.
When you start to think about him, and you think about the good times – stop yourself and remind yourself of the bad times. Remind yourself of every single horrible mean thing he has done or said …. replay it in your mind. SERIOUSLY, it works. Because then you get mad and feel like screw him! and forget about the good times, because essentially the good times are what make you miss him.
EVERYBODY is a JERK.Including YOU!!!
grow up,you got married,and marriage is FOREVER,not until youare tired of it.
but go on,listen to all the old ,bitter divorced people that claim they are so much happy alone and misreable
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Maybe a divorce isn’t the right thing to do. Maybe instead you should try marital counseling. Every couple that has been together for years and years have been through times when they thought that divorce was the answer but they got through it. You said that you still love him and can’t stop thinking about him, and if you are having a sexual relationship then the intimacy and attraction is still there.
Maybe you just need to rethink this divorce.