How do you save a messy relationship?
posted Tuesday,
8:02 am
I am very in love right now. However, I have been fighting with my partner very often for quite some time. He get’s so angry at me for little things and vice versa. Sometimes I say things I shouldn’t. Just we have our issues. I have tried to talk to him about it, and he says that he loves me but I just need to calm down and stuff and that we are alright. Just, he gets so mad at me and is very mean to me about things I don’t even understand. How can I improve things?
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Same thing happened to me in my last relationship. But I’ve learned from it. To improve this I suggest either a break from each other or you guys need to find more things to talk about that will keep you from fighting. Like maybe things such as ummm….people…that could cause fights. Like..he could say "well i think jenna is pretty" and you could get mad at him because shes on television or something and you’re all like he shouldn’t be talking about other girls when in reality he only loves you but its hard for you to keep that in mind because little things like that hurt girls! So try to talk about things like the beach and just whatever you guys can talk about. Talk about where you want to hang out and all the things you want to do together on like the weekends & stuff and just be happy
Don’t yell or fuss and if he says something to upset you, unless its completely ridiculous, then just shake it off and say I CAN DO THIS I CAN DO THIS I CAN DO THIS and squeeze a pillow. I had to do that and it helped. 
Good luck. ♥ Email me if you neeed more help!
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A relationship takes two people to work. Sit down, and try to talk to him about it again. Don’t make the conversation a fun one, but know that it needs to be done. He loves you, and you love him, and that’s what matters the most.
The reason he gets mad at you may be because he just does not know how to control his feelings, and as a result, is taking it out on you. You may want to seek anger management classes for him, or if you want to keep this between you two, then find a point in the middle of an argument, and make your stand. You don’t have to get in his face, but you do have to make him realize that he needs to stop getting anrgy with you at such little things. Tell him you realize you both love each other, but in the end, communication is also a major part of a relationship, and having a frustrated person taking out his anger on his significant other is not going to stand with you.
Talk to him again. Make it serious, and make sure excuses aren’t involved. You love him, and he loves you. Now, just make sure to inject communication into your relationship.