Comments on: How do you save a marriage that is falling apart?

By: ♥ღRavens Destiny♥ღ

♥ღRavens Destiny♥ღ — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 20:05:13 +0000

Time and a lot of hard work. A lot of people have problems with money because they dont know how to properly budget. Seeking advise on budgeting is a great thing to do, as long as your both willing and will follow what you are being told to do. Its not easy at all. However, it works. Seeing a marriage counselor is also a great idea, but you both have to work hard and do what they tell you. Its not an easy thing to keep working at it day after day, but it becomes easier with time and in the end its worth it.

By: mrs_nisius

mrs_nisius — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 20:05:13 +0000

read the book, the five love languages by dr. gary chapman. that is how to save your marriage for only $7.50.

By: Gary B

Gary B — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 20:05:13 +0000

Go see "Fireproof" at the theater, and do what it says.

By: rkrell

rkrell — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 20:05:13 +0000

There is no absolute answer but it in order to save a marriage both parties must want to save it. As long as both of you want to make it work then you can communicate and work on things. If one side won’t work at then there is nothing you can do.

By: Lucky♥Me

Lucky♥Me — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 20:05:13 +0000

It takes two to save a marriage – Communicate about $$ and the influences affecting your marriage. There are counselors for both that can help.

By: MONDAYS FRIEND

MONDAYS FRIEND — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 20:05:13 +0000

How do you save one that was never right from the beginning but, because of financial concerns, can’t, nor probably never will be able to afford to get out of…?

By: DEFINATELY BLESSED

DEFINATELY BLESSED — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 20:05:13 +0000

Marriages can only be saved by both parties…it does not work for only one of you wanting to save it. 2nd of all, you two have to get back to the emotions you had when you first fell in love and wanted to marry. Find those good qualities and manifest them now. Be each others best supporter and look to where you are going and not where you are coming from. You can’t have a future if you are always bringing up the past. Good luck.

By: sophia_of_light

sophia_of_light — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 20:05:13 +0000

First off it takes two! & if you are saying finaces and outside influences are biggest faults here then it should be fairly easy to rise above them… You are with your spouce b/c you want to be not b/c of money right so go without, limit more then you want to, to have more for bills and food, right now everyone is having this problem only the rich are not… Money is a small facture when love is there it does help but only very little. Go without the enternet, or your cable these things and time we spend on them can be spent doing other things like reading, or taking in a few days a week at the beach or the park, go exercise on runs or long walks, when you do want to sit infront of the t.v. rent a dvd, not many just one or two and sellect them fromt he older sections of movies I know you haven’t seen them all and you’ll get them for more days at a cheaper rate. Cook more at home. be simple and happy with what you have and you do still have eachother.

As far as the outside enfluences are concerned only you and he can shut out the negitive and mistrusting from entering into your lives ignoring them can be done easiely.

Uncondtional love is there if you tap into it and want it but it’s easier when it comes from both sides. Good luck, hope this helps some- get creative, it will last if you want it to or it can end if you want it to. But in the end it takes work and determination to replace that glue that is becoming weak.

By: sparrow

sparrow — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 20:05:13 +0000

I have the money problem too, there’s nothing we can cut back on. We fell behind in mortgage payments and worked out a loan modification. Maybe your mortgage company will consider a modification to lower your monthly payments.

Another option is to sell some of the furniture and items in the garage that you don’t use all the time. I know it can be humiliating but the cash does go a long way.

Lastly, try to bring more intimacy into the bedroom. You will find that the closer you get intimately, the closer you will be overall, which will help the two of you overcome the issues.

By: great b

great b — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 20:05:13 +0000

Conflicts and problems are part of any marriage and there are always solutions to any problem. Leaving or changing partner is not a guarantee that your marital problems will be solved or it does not guarantee that money matters and other marital problems wil not happen again.

If the problem in your marriage is too complicated and too much for you to handle, seek professional help. Marriage counselling is one way to help you save a failing marriage. If you want to Save Your Marriage Today visit http://bring-back-your-love.blogspot.com/