How do I save my marriage when the odds all seem stacked against me?
posted Friday,
10:34 pm
Well I love my wife and I know that inside her she loves me but there all kinds of things against me, for example my little brother who sat there and seen all of the things happening is now pursuing her with no regard to me and she thinks that it would make her happy, she has a best friend giving her nothing but negative advice, and family doing the same as well, I love her and have since the moment I saw her, we have an 18mth old little girl and all I want to do is save my marriage, she knows that by talking to me she would come back so she got a restraining order and filed for divorce, all of which I believe were outside influences, I need help I can’t live without her.
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You can live without her and you will live without her because she is definetly moving on. SHe has filed a restraining order and filed for divorce, this marriage is over and wanting her and loving her is NOT going to make her come back to you. Outside influences may have contributed but in the end your wife has to take responsibility for her actions and you need to realize that SHE is ultimately making decisions regarding her life. Get visitation with your child and move on as best as you can. Be a great father to your child and accept that she has decided to move on. Be well!
Let go and Let God take care of the situation. He will help. LOL
grow some balls for one. beat the shit out of your bro and her friend. show them who is boss. she will know who to turn to. be kind to her if u must. but let her know who is the alpha dog. keep whining u snot nose, u’ll lose her
Disappear, the more you persue her the worse its going to be. Back off for awhile and let the storm call, when she realizes youre not there, she might just open her eyes. If she doesnt, why be with someone who doesnt want to be with you? That just means the right one is still waiting for you to come around. Make your little girl top priority.
Time to move on and beat the crap out of your brother.
You sure are leaving out the bad stuff about yourself, nor are you admitting to any wrong doing but restraining order, her best friend and your own brother have no respect for you…your fighting a losing battle…why now instead of earlier is all questionable…time to start all over.
In order for her to have been granted a restraining order you must have been doing some negative things. You need to look at your actions and change. It is time to move on. You were the influences that led to her filing for divorce
NOW THAT TRUE LOVE ON YOUR PART.AND THERES NOTHING YOU CAN DO. SHE HAS A RESTRAINING ORDER AGAINST YOU,DO VIOLATE THAT.IF SHE LOVE YOU SHE WILL COME BACK.AND IF SHE DONT THERES MORE THAN 1 FISH IN THE SEA.ALL YOU GOT TO DO,IS THROW HOOK OUT THERE AND IM SURE YOU WILL GET A BITE!!
Here’s reality:
The woman you married is fickle and unfaithful.
She isn’t worthy of marriage to you or anyone else. Nor will she make anyone "happy," including herself. She is an emotional leech that feeds off other people’s emotions.
And, you are a masochistic whose only real interest in her is the pain she causes you, which you consider "love."
You should seek counseling to get over your need to have an abusive person in your life. And you should send your brother a thank you card for getting the leech off your hands.
Followed by a sympathy card for what he is about to endure.
Good luck, and keep in mind that people who intentionally and maliciously cause others pain do not love anyone, including themselves.
you sir are in serious need of a big fat dose of reality. you can say till you are blue in the face that "if she would talk to me that she knows she would come back" and that others are keeping her from you if it makes you feel better but thats not the case. she is a grown woman and when a woman feels that she needs a restraining order to keep her husband away its not because she is really wants to be with you. she is scared of you and when i hear comments like "i can’t live without her" sounds like she has good reason to be. you did say one correct phrase when you said "i need help". that you do and i would suggest getting it asap!!! when everybody in her life including your own brother is encouraging her to leave you that should tell you something. you need to take a long hard look at your actions and your life and get help soon. if you were so in love with her and treated her so well during the course of your marriage i think it would be obvious that you wouldnt be in the situation you are in now. quit blaming other people for things that are your own fault.