How do I save my marriage from my thinking false stuff is happening?
posted Wednesday,
12:50 am
I need help on how to save my marriage , I have cheated in my wife on the past , several times and now I always think something is going on that is not and it is pushing us apart. I don’t have proof of anything wrong she has done just what I think she has done and She has about had it with me because of it. I dont know what to do ?
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You think she is cheating because YOU have cheated in the past. If she has learned to trust you after you cheated on her, then you need to trust her because she is one hell of a woman for taking you back! You are feeling guilty and transferring those feelings onto her.
The best way to get past all of this is to just talk about it. Tell her you love her and prove to her that you have eyes only for her. I think it will make you feel better.
Good luck!
Your paranoid. Just because you’re a cheater doesn’t mean EVERYBODY else is a cheater. Chill out already sheesh.
i think you are thinking she is going to "pay you back".. if she choose to forgive you then i think that you shouldn’t continue to taint the marriage and accuse her ..if she is getting fed up with being falsely accused you are just keeping up term oil when you could be THANKFUL to have a wife that forgives ..she obviously loves you to still want to stay with you – just make sure you don’t hurt her again … the energy u take to accuse use that to show her how much you appriciate her and love her .. that way you 2 can move forward with your marriage .. and continue to grow stronger from this incident ..
I know it is hard to do, but the best advice i have is to pray. Ask God to fix your heart and hers. If she is cheating he will revile it. If she is not he will just help you heal your marriage if that is the case. But not one out here can help you but God. After everything else fails just try God. It won’t hurt!!!