How do I save my marriage?

5 Comments

1. Softtouchmale says:

   March 20, 2010 at 10:46 pm

   Well if you come on too strong, he may recoil in fear or disgust.

   Try schmoozing him a bit. You know working into his world a little at a time. Sharing his beer, watching a football game with him. Rooting for his team. Servicing his sexual needs right after a major touchdown.
2. minnie says:

   March 20, 2010 at 10:46 pm

   first of all what do u mean by look at me?
   in a relationship you have to have trust in the other person talk to him be like i need to talk to you and tell him to be honest to you about what he feels for you and what he dosent feel anymore. if he says theres nothing to fix you cant do nothing a relationship is for two persons who love each other not only for one.
   hope i could help
3. Richard says:

   March 20, 2010 at 10:46 pm

   I can’t really tell from your avatar. It’s too small. It looks like you’re holding a newspaper under your arm.

   Anyway, try losing weight. Fatness is the #1 reason why men lose interest in women. Fatness and nagging. So maybe also be quiet.
4. Erica says:

   March 20, 2010 at 10:46 pm

   I was married for 5yrs, now going through a divorce. I never ever thought he would cheat on me or leave me (7.5months pregnant) and his son to be with someone else. I can not believe I ever believed all his shit.
   The big questions are… what is his family like. Are they all divorced and cheat or do they have good morals. More then likely if they are all divorced and/or cheat he will end up being the same way (even if he says he is nothing like them) it makes it acceptable to him. At least that is what happened in my situtaion. I still can not believe how blindsided I was by all this. I guess I should have trusted my gut a little more. But you never want to believe it can happen to you.
5. Georgio says:

   March 20, 2010 at 10:46 pm

   You’re exactly why marriage is a scam. You expect him to service your needs when you look like that?