How do I save my marriage?
Me and my wife have been separated for about 2 1/2 years. We have stayed together and contemplated getting back together but there are some issues that have gotten in the way. I have abstained form any type of other relationships but she has slept with two other men since our separation, one of which she has a new child from. That relationship is over but it took me some time to get over that since we have two children of our own. We have slept together off and on throughout this time as well. I must say that I was primarily the wall in keeping her away, mostly out of pride and hurt. I recently went to California for my cousins wedding and really took some deep introspection adn realized that I do not want my marriage to end, and that I never really did. Now I would do anything to save my marriage. What do I do to show her how much I am sorry and care and want to make it work. I’ve pushed her away for so long that it is proving difficult for her to take me seriously. What do I Do?
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Tell her what you just told us.
You are too emotional.
End the marriage and get a new wife.
Marriages are not sticks to be repaired with gum.
make sure what issues that separated you in the first place are resolved, talk with her…be sincere…also be prepared to move on if the answer is no because that too is part of being sincere. Pour your guts out…but be aware that her reply is from her heart and not out of pity for yours.
Fight for what you believe in! If you believe whole heartedly in saving your marriage, then do something about it and make sure it’s for the right reasons! Remember 1 corinthians 13:13-and of these three remained: faith, love, and hope. The greatest of these is love!!
Yeah, tell her what you told us. After all that and you still wanting to save your marriage… thats awesome.
Good luck!
if both of you truly want to save the marrage then it time to
stop all the nonsense and get some counseling and try to
work it out, this back and forth is not good for any one especially the children. it time to work it out or time to
move on.
Communicate that to her
If she has been with other dudes while you two are seperated then f U ck her!! She aint wanting to be with you dude. Move on. I dont mean go sleep with another chick, I mean get a life of your own for you. Consider her out of your life. She aint respecting you or the chance of getting back together. Come on, you cant be that much of a loser. There is life for you even if she aint in it. Find it.
Show and tell her hw you realy love her &your family, feeling sory for what yuv done. show how you value them and working very hard to keep your family one again. accepting her for what she is now. forgeting the pass and very careful to be the best for a future filled with love,hapiness & unity with understanding & respect for the whle family
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