How can I save this dating relationship?
posted Sunday,
2:35 pm
So, it has been 4 months and I have been moving slowly with my dating relationship. It then took a slightly serious turn. He wanted me to meet his father, gave me the tour of his old neighborhood and his condo. Lately, he has been distancing himself from me. Well we also have not been intimate yet.
My friend said that I should keep it light and have fun when we get together. She also said he probably found something a bit more exciting and if he really likes me he will contact me again.
Does this relationship stand a chance now? or could it be a little too late?
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I think this guy is wondering the same thing you are. He possibly thinks that you are loosing intrest in him too. My best advice is to call him and talk to him about the way things are going and how you feel. It’s not too late at all.
Talk to him and tell ask him, What’s going on?
You answered your own question. "NO INTIMACY". All the other stuff was just a prelude to getting into your pants. Guys do these types of things all of the time. The problem is there are plenty of women who fall for this. If he has lost interest, it may be simply because he has gotten no intimacy and he may have found someone to supply that need.
Your friend was being nice when she told you he may have found someone more exciting. She meant to say "NO INTIMACY" but was saving your feelings. Guys are simple and when the simple becomes complicated it is no longer interesting. So if he is trying to figure a way to get intimacy out of you and has had no luck, then 9 times out of 10 he is loosing interest and may have even moved on.
Why not invite him over for a home-cooked dinner?
@b-mac34 I agree with your comment. It is true that many times when a man is not getting something out of a relationship he will lose interest and move on. Try to have a intimate moment like cuddling up while watching a movie or like mudbug says cook him a home cooked meal try that also or do both.
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