Comments on: How can I save my relationship?

By: Katherine

*Katherine* — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 04:16:32 +0000

OMG you sound like me in the beggining of my 3 yr relationship with my best friend (who i am still with its going on 3 yrs and 7 months now) i was 16 when we first started going out and he was 18…him and i were always goofing around and making fun of eacother as friends but when things got serious where we were actually in a relationship…he kept acting the same….so what i did was i explained to him that we’re no longer just best friends we’re bf and gf and if we want things to work out for us we have to act like bf and gf more!! get more lovey dovey with him and kiss and hug be romanitc and see how he reacts call him pet names like baby or sweetheart and do things togrether rather than with other ppl around and you two should be fine it worked out for me great you’ll see if he’s ready to be in a relationship with you if he goes 100% for it or if he backs away so hopefully it will all work in your favor

By: John K

John K — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 04:16:32 +0000

take it to the next level

By: ilanaplaysguitar

ilanaplaysguitar — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 04:16:32 +0000

Spend some time alone with him. Try to rekindle your relationship. Think about how you started liking eachother. Try to just relive that moment.

By: Tsunami

Tsunami — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 04:16:32 +0000

you are already talking about it and now you hae decided to that you can’t live with out him well you know what you have learned alot from him and now its time to let him go and seek someone else its good for both ofyou. i mean hey you may find somsone else that you can go with you will like as much or more life itsn’t one person only till you marry and you could meet lots before that time comes so get moving. take care and good luck

By: Tired

Tired — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 04:16:32 +0000

Tell him that if you said losing him would be something you could handle you would be lying, that is a good way of telling him how much you care about him. Then try to spice things up and be more cuddly and flirty with him.

By: Searching

Searching — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 04:16:32 +0000

Hey…thats what happens in relationships…after the first year it settles down. Do things afterschool together like study, clubs at school, exercise, volunteer…volunteering together is REALLY good. Being very supportive of each other in highschool is important and when you get a little older, say 11th and 12th grade, you will understand what I mean. You have to learn to do things with each other and rely on each other to get through…to where you need each other for real and then it’s never "old" (when you get older you may buy a house together and a car…or work to go on vacation together…this is training to see if yall can hang tight)

By: joshua

joshua — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 04:16:32 +0000

take it to the next……

By: ♥

Sat, 04 Jul 2009 04:16:32 +0000

i would talk about it. communication is the key. just try being more flirty, going out more, holding hands and doing boyfriend/girlfriend things. if it doesn’t feel right, maybe it’s just not meant to be. maybe you need to find someone else to see that you really WANT him and that will get you guys to get your spark back. see how the first few things go and if not, try dating other people for a while.

By: Gina 7

Gina 7 — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 04:16:32 +0000

You are too young to get serious… It most likely wont last if you do stay together for a while. People change and grow apart the older we get.

By: Randy W

Randy W — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 04:16:32 +0000

You are 14 years old so you most likely rely on your parents for a lot. If you can’t get out to something because of transportation or money you need to rely on what you have in common. your 14 years old and it may be really tough for you two but as long as there is no intense fighting keep it going.