How can I save my relationship with my best friend?
posted Monday,
1:06 pm
Lately, my best friend has been acting different around me. I don’t know why, but it’s like they don’t want me around anymore and that she doesn’t trust me anymore. Every time she needs help, it’s always somebody else that she would ask, even though I’m basically standing next to her. It’s like I barely exist anymore. One year ago, it was really different and this just started about 2 weeks ago. I don’t understand what’s wrong, because she’s happy around other people…
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That is awkward. To save the relationship, you can ask her directly about what is wrong. But from what I am seeing, she seems to have changed and even if you asked her in the nicest manner, she may just get angry and continue on ignoring you…
Well, something must have happened, but even finding out what it is might not actually save the friendship. So here is what you do, continue being ncie to her, and is there is a sepcial event coming up aka someone’s bday, try organsiing it together.
Also, she doesn’t seem to trust u? So in order to gain her trust, you firstly must trust her. Tell her something that you’re worried about and see how she responds, surely even as a small friend, she should comfort you. And then the friendship would heal, gradually
But if she doesn’t comfort you and continues igrnoing you,,,she has some problems,,,or maybe you did something really offensive to her and didnt know (but I doubt)
o, you can also get her a small gift with a card
saying how awkward it has been and brush it off with a joke.
Good luck and best wishes
dear, you try/tried to save the friendship, if she doesn’t appreciate the friendship, then she’s not a good friend worth having.
Ask her!
Maybe she changed crowds? Something she might be hiding.
Sit down and talk with her. Let her know how you feel and what you think and all.
Help please?
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Maybe you’ve changed in her eyes and she doesn’t feel comfortable disclosing personal information with you anymore. You should just ask her.