How can I save my relationship to a cheating boyfriend who talks to someone miles away?
posted Thursday,
7:59 pm
I have been in a relationship with a man for 1 year and a half. He recently started talking to a girl over 1,000 miles away in April. They constantly talk on the phone or text (I know this from snooping). The girl even made a trip to see him and he denies it all, but I know its true. They talk all the time and now he hardly pays me any attention. On top of that, I am 3 1/2 months pregnant. Please help me somehow.
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My question to you is why would you want to save this relationship? Cheating is a deal breaker and cheaters don’t deserve second chances. Is this the atmosphere you want to raise your child in? It’s better this baby be FROM a broken home than living IN one! He has deceived you and betrayed your trust. Your relationship will never be what it once was. This relationship will not last……it’s better you make the break now and get settled into your own place before the baby is born so he/she can start their life off in a calm peaceful environment.
The only one who can help you, is YOU!
Dump him – pregnant or not! What’s worse? Being a single mom or being with the baby’s dad when he’s screwing around on you?
RUN – don’t walk!
Good luck
why do you want someone who doesn’t respect you? get rid of him and let him pay child support.
Tell him WTF are you playing at you pompous Bast**d
He’s being a right sod you deserve attention I don’t blame you for snooping honesty doesn’t seem to be one of his strenghts in any shape
Your boyfriend is behaving terribly!
I know it’s hard with you being pregnant and all but I think you have to think of yourself and the baby, do you really want to stay with a man who is cheating on you? Do you really want your baby to have a father who doesn’t really care about his/her mother?
if you want to track him down and stuff, go to…..
http://www.reversedphonesearch.com/
there’s a charge for all he details but you can find out where his cellphone is, who they call, exactly where they are (if they’re at someone’s house), and some other things…
or you could steal his cellphone for a week or so (it’s ok to do this with the situation he put you in, i have done this too and found a lot of things i didn’t like), and when you have it, go ahead and read his texts and record them on a piece of paper, find out how often he’s been calling this b*tch, also you could call her and tell her about your husband and how he’s with you and after talking this out with her, maybe she’ll leave him, but you should confront her as son as possible and tell her everything…confront him about this too and threaten to leave him (give him a good scare, maybe even leave him by surprise so he’ll never see it coming, but whatever you do, if you leave him make sure you break his heart and give him something to miss)
I’d recommend leaving him because if he actually truely loved you, he wouldn’t be doing this to you. Keep an eye out for a better guy (but don’t cheat on him, cuz that would be low), cuz you don’t wanna spend the rest of your life with this jerk, give yourself to someone who needs you…besides, he probably got her pregnant too….
"once a cheater, always a cheater"
this phrase is definitely true, cuz my bf cheated on me twice and almost dumped me for one of my friends…
btw,
I hope your boyfriend/ husband goes to hell….he deserves it!
hope this heps you a little!
I’m really sorry about whats happening to you!
I hope you find a better guy!!!