But if you truly love each other, well you will be alright. While he is away why don’t you take some classes of some kind to help you advance in your career whatever it is. This will help pass the time for you and you will be doing something that will help you both while he is away.

Join a support group of other ladies who’s husbands are also away. This might be very helpfull as far as discussing your feelings with others who probubly have the same feelings.

Or…volenteer to help with some just cause like delivering meals to the sick and elderly ?

Now as for your husband. He needs to seek some help from a man of the cloth like a pastor. It helps a man to talk to another man that is there in a spirtiual way to help raise his spirits and give him hope and the support he needs. There is always a man of the cloth around in the military no matter where your husband is.

Finally….Trust, trust, trust. You both must trust the one you love with all your heart. Be loyal, honest, loving to each other and all this will pass in time. You and he can do it. You both owe it to each other.

This is something that being deployed isn’t going to help any, and is probably goign to make it worse… See if you can hang out with some of your mutual girl friends that you’d hang out with anyways on a regular basis so maybe he’d come to realize that when you do go out, it’s allways with the "girls" but not a "girls night out."

Not sure what else to tell ya, but the military should have some good resourses that you can pull upon for this.

Dress more conservative when you go outside.