How can I save my marriage?
posted Tuesday,
3:06 pm
My wife wants divorce, and I Truly love her from the bottom of my heart as we have 14 month old baby, what should I do, I’m very sad that’s happening, what should I do to stop it? Please reply with serious answers as you see this is a bad situation, God bless.
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You didnt say why she wants out of the marriage. Talk to her and maybe you can go to marriage counseling.
Well the bottom line if your wife doesn’t love you any more and you have told her how you feel and she doesn’t want to work to try to save your marriage then there isn’t a whole hell of allot you can do but be there for your child and move on with your life.
maybe she’s had enough of you… it happens…
and maybe she’s seen that religion is a load of hocum!!!
let her go, she wants out… respect her decision…
see, ur wife should understand that you hav a 14 month old baby. First try to convience her. If she doesnt realise, u tell her that if she loves u, she will never talk about such a bad matter.
Well if she made up her mind there is nothing much u can do about it , but you can try to say for her that u wanna be together for the sake of the child probably that will soften her heart
it depends on the reason why she’s divorcing you
have you talked about it with her, tried to solve it?
if not do it now but if you’ve been through that already then go for counselling, ask her to come with you for the sake of the kid and the love you have for her
tell her how much she means to you and how it will destroy you to be without her
I am in the same boat as you. My wife and I have been down this path many times. The best advice I can give you is love your child,be yourself and seek out as many good friends and family as you can. If she truly loves YOU it will all work out in the end. Good Luck!
Hi,
I am sorry to hear this.
You havent given us much information in this post as to what is happening, but there are certain emotional needs that men and women have and require fulfillment of in a marriage.
Your wife may not have those needs fulfilled, she may feel unappreciated, she may be suffering from postnatal depression (depression that women have after giving birth, I forget what you call it in the US, sorry). You need to find out why she wants a divorce and then work on those issues.
Perhaps you could say to her that you are very much in love with her and for the sake of your baby would she give the marriage six months more to see if you can work on your issues?
If she doesn’t agree, could you say to her to go and stay with family as a trial separation? If you have firm rules about what you want to achieve by the separation and that you will not cheat on one another during the separation it can help to genuinely see what is going wrong.
If your wife sees that you are willing to adjust things to help you both change, or at least adjust viewpoints, then maybe she will be willing to work things out a little bit.
Best wishes,
Red Stripe