How can i save my marriage?
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Where can i get help to save my marriage because is heading for a crash……
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There is a great book called Strengthening your marraige by Wayne A Mack. Tehre are lots of activities to do together that bring you closer. Maybe check it out. http://www.amazon.com/Strengthening-Your-Marriage-Wayne-Mack/dp/0875523854
Aside from that try counseling and talking things through rather than fighting things out.
counseling
Marriage counseling? Sitting down and trying to compromise on your issues with your partner?
If its really bad I would suggest marriage counseling! Just as long as you are both willing to work hard to save it! Good luck!
do u go to church?
Obviously we can’t help if you don’t supply us with details.
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try something new in bed
counseling
Call Dr. Phil
Find a good marriage counselor. I had one that was gentle when needed but very firm when we try to beat around the bush. We only saw her a handful of times… but it worked.
Why don’t you try counseling??
Try your church…
Good luck, I said a prayer for you!
Try to figure out how to make compromises and gain understanding of the problems between you so that you can solve them together.
try counseling, but it will only work if you both really want to save the marriage.
There is nothing wrong with asking for help from a 3rd party. If you aren’t comfortable with counseling, try a clergyperson at your church.
my just sit down and talk to each other
or go to marrige counseling
At least you realize the issue at hand. Start there and communicate with your spouse. Nothing is more important in this situation.
Communication communication communication.
Ohh, and compromise.
Be prepared to work at it, no one ever achieved anything without a bit of hard work.
It takes two. If you both are willing to save it, it can be saved. If your husband is willing try counseling sometimes having a third party to give you different scenarios to think about can help in seeing the others point of view.
stop serving him and start serving God
God says he will drag him along if He needs ya’ll together or if it’s in accordance w/ his plans!
Marriage counseling, but you both need to go in order for it to work. If he refuses to go your marriage is doomed.
Write your spouse a letter. Sometimes its better to express it on paper. Nothing too negative, but its a calming way to say hey lets talk.
first all have you tried to talk to him about whats going on,thats your first step.You two sit down and lay everything on the table and be very honest with yourself and him and vise versa,and see what you can do before you go to a counselor because sometimes yuo can fix it yourself before you spend a fortune in that,try talking first and then do the next step.I wish you all the luck.
If you are attending a church see the clergy, or a marital counsellor.
why would you want to?
Marriage is such a hassle anyway.
Can you cook,iron wash and clean? If you cant you are in trouble if you can then get on with it, your marriage is saved.
Hey, Ms Effect, I have answered a number of your questions and you have never let me know if you can cook,iron , wash and clean. Are you afraid to let us know?
Are you afraid to admit you can’t in front of the other women on this forum?
Come on be brave and tell all.
If you find it necessary to ask here then its already been torpedoed and is taking on water fast.
Abandon it or go down with it. Your choice sailor.
I say you should both go have an affair with someone else for a while and see how hard it is to start over and be with someone new and all the bullshit you have to put up with. It will give you a much greater view of what you have and how good things can be if you stop nit picking the small things and just focus on the fact that the 2 of you loved each enough to get married so you should be able to sit down and talk out the problems.
Not enough information to give good advice. But in general there are some things that make a good marriage. Communication is the key. If you and your spouse are ready, willing and able to sit down and talk out your problems then you have a good chance. But that means you both have to listen to each other, not just hear what the other is saying. Secondly, neither of you can get upset, angry or hurt by what the other is saying. You must keep an open mind in order to make change. Third you both must be willing to change the things that are sending your marriage down the drain.
If you can’t do these things by yourself then you should try to find a good marriage counselor who can help you both get through the steps and bring/keep you together.
If you would like to spell out the problem, I would be happy to hear you out and try to offer some advice. Feel free to contact me.
The only way that you can save your marriage is with GOD. And it has to be something that the both of you want. If you are the only one that is trying to save it,then tere is nothing that you can do because it takes two to make it work. So make sure that it something that the both of you want first then go to your church and talk to your preacher.And what ever you do, keep your friends and family out of your marriage,because they well break the two of you apart faster than anything.
Depends on what the problems are, counseling Against Abuse., any church. Good luck
When my relationship hit the crash and burn cycle, we ended up in counseling with a licsened clinical social worker. Honestly, I was extremely happy with it. They are generally trained through Humanities Schools rather than Psychology and Medical Schools (or at least at teh University I work for) and she was terrific. Honest, and friendly.
I found her through my company. One of the benefits we have at my organization is this Employee Assistance Program that offered free short term counseling. My boyfriends company had a similar program. Mostly they are designed to provide a brief fix, like six weeks to work on the issues. After that you ahve to pay, but its a good place to start. Check your company website or call HR. Dont be emabarassed, HR is there to resolve employee issues.
Also, check with the local univeristy (or universities). Alot of Psychology schools and Humanities programs offer discounted counseling sessions to the public.
I hope it works out for you. Counseling saved my relationship. We still go, 10 weeks after the near collapse, and it has worked wonders. We communicate, we laugh, we enjoy time with each other again. It was like falling in love all over again.
Counceling is the only thing to sovle your problems.
well what do you think you can save it o no. but you could try marggie counling but i really dont think you should waste your money because my parents tryed it my whole life and now finaly they got divorced this past year.
but really im sorry but honey move on!!!!
I would suggest you go to counselling be it a private marriage counsellor or a church if you are religious. Good luck.
what happened to get it there? usually if you find the problem you can fix it. Good luck
Marriage counseling.
my wife probably thinks the same thing as the question here, or if she has enough sense she should anyway, I told her the other day that I need a divorce, she said I’m not leaving, I said when I’m ready for you to go I won’t ask if you want to go, and now by fate 2 days ago I ran into an old ex girl friend, we are talking online and chatting, hopefully I can get rid of my wife and hook up with this sweet thing, she is so gorgeous and HOT,, !!! my wife is such a turn off,
SIT DOWN WITH YOUR SPOUSE, NO ONE ELSE NEEDS TO BE INVOLVED WITH YOUR MARRIAGE, IT WAS ONLY THE TWO OF YOU THAT GOT MARRIED RIGHT? TALK ABOUT AND REMEMBER WHY YOU GOT MARRIED, THE FEELINGS THE THINGS YOU USE TO DO, THE WAY YOU FELT WHEN THE OTHER ONE TOUCHED YOU OR KISSED YOU. IT IS IN THE BOTH OF YOU WHY YOU SHOULD STAY TOGETHER, WORK IT OUT AND BE ADULTS, WE ARE NOT TEENAGERS ANY MORE, GOOD LUCK,
Sorry, not enough info to help.