Help how can I get free marriage counseling to save our marriage?
posted Thursday,
11:32 am
Constantly we’re fighting, we can be only 30 min. of the day okay and the rest just yelling each other, telling us terrible things to the edge to say you leave or I do. But what we still here. I dont have a lot of money to afford a therapist or etc, can some one out there help me…..
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Call family services in your area and see if they have these services available. If not try a local church of your preference because they may have something to offer you there. If you have someone you both know that you trust and look up to maybe this could even be helpful if you are both willing to work on things to make your marriage better? There are some good self help books in your local library so maybe check some of them out and start reading because they can be helpful.
Church
Most churches will offer free counseling or sessions with the priest (or similar official) and also free group therapy sessions.
Contact your pastor and ask if he can counsel the both of you.
It’s cheaper just to leave and be done with it. If you’re fighting as much as you say you are, then there’s no love left. Know when to quit and just move on.
You need to decide what the main source of argument is. You state that money is issue, maybe funds are stressing out your marriage? It is usually the main source, but not always.
Anyways once you locate the problem, you two together need decide if its something you want to work on together or not. Sometimes staying together is not always the best thing, even though it goes against your vowels. Sometimes life is to short to suffer.
Locate the problem, discuss it, take action!
Hope this helped! Good luck in all you do.
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contact the UGF { United givers Fund}
They charge according to your income
Check if your local college, university, or community college has any programs. Here in las vegas at UNLV, the graduate students do counseling for $10/session compared to the $75+ per session at an alternate counseling office. in most cases, the students already have their degree but are working towards a specialty (like marriage, family, abuse, etc.)…me and my husband went and found a really good counselor.
Contact your local church. As far as the conflict between you and your husband, it is good to keep in mind, to resolve conflict is not about winning, it is to come to an agreement, a compromise. This is not easy to do, as once tempers flare all reasoning is lost to the wind. Couples need to understand that words can cut deeper and can hurt the relationship to the point of no return. Always maintain respect for one another and try to leave out other issues aimed to hurt one another. You might have luck in checking into your local college to see if they provide classes regarding this subject, most do and it is not as expensive as counselling. Good luck to you!