Girls, would you respect your boyfriend’s wish to save sex for marriage?
posted Tuesday,
10:53 pm
Now I’m asking as if you just meet a guy you like. You date him a few times. Maybe he even becomes your boyfriend. Then you find out he is a virgin who wants to wait until marriage to have sex. What would you think about that? Would you try to change his mind later down the line? Or would you respect that and not like him any less? How important do you view sex in a relationship? I’m just curious.
This question is geared more towards women who have had sex in their relationships. Give me your thoughts. Please and thank you.
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I Wish I could Find A Guy Like That. If She Can’t Respect That, Well Than She Doesn’t Deserve You! Who wouldn’t want to ride a Clean Magic Stick. Keep It Cleeeean!
absolutely
ALOT
SO MUCH RESPECT
ONLY IF AM THE FUTURE WIFE
I wouldn’t try and change him if i loved him..
if that is what he believes in then..
it is what it is..
most women will deal with it..
♥
respect
yep
respect him one hundred percent!!
bra if your a virgin why would you not have sex with a girl you liked alot, im a virgin and im 19 and when i meet a girl i really like ill do it, why marriage?
I would personally not be interested in dating somebody who was a virgin….HOWEVER I wouldn’t try to change their mind, either. I would just take it as a sign we wern’t meant to be together, if he believed in being a virgin to marriage.
i would respect that, but then again maybe change his mind
I’m waiting until i’m married to have sex, so meeting a guy like that would be grate because i would know that he wouldn’t pressure me into anything.
I would respect him =) Plus it says a lot of good about him if he can wait that long.
I think he derserves to have his wishes respected, so I wouldn’t pressure him… I’d still like him too
Sex is only a big part of the relationship if both partners agree it is. Every couple’s different. IMO – let him save it
trust me sex isn’t everything in a relationship! I would 100% respect that
lots of respect for a guy like that.
tbh (that’s the first time iv ever used that abbreviation
, special!) i wouldn’t mind at least id know that the guy wasn’t only after one thing and im sure that’s worth the wait
hi .if you really care about this guy , you will respect his wishes.be glad that you found someone like that.then you know your relationship is not build on sex, that he loves you for you.i let a guy wait 9 months .if he really loves me he will stick around.
enjoy each others company
Yes, definitely. My boyfriend is a mormon, and it is one of their rules that they have to stay a virgin until they are married. i think girls should think about if this was their situation for any guy who wants to stay a virgin until they are married. they should think about if that guy was religious that they would have to wait anyway.
I would respect this man so much I think it is great that a guy can actually keep his priorities straight and not think only about sex. This guy sounds like a keeper and I bet down the line if you guy end up together maybe one day it will happen and it will be great good luck.
there’s only few guys in where we’re livin now that CAN wait 4 their marriage to hav sex…
i absolutely salute that guy if i meet one…
in my opinion sex is not the most important thing,. i would like to save sex til marriage too.. if my boyfriend told me he would like to stay a virgin i would respect his decisions and since most girls arent horn dogs they would respect it just like me. i mean as being humans, us girls would get tempted a lot so maybe at the beginning of the relationship before things get way too serious tell her your boundaries and if she cant respect that then call it off. hope this helps!
When i was younger in my earlier 20′s and had sex on the brain 24/7 I would have had a major problem with it. I would have been a str8 show stopper. However now I realize there are more important things in a relationship other then sex. I can respect his decision, and it might be a lil challenging but its not like we cant do anything, we just cant go all the way. I would be fine with that now I think. I actually think that without that other areas of relationship would be stronger. And then the sex would just be icing on the cake later.
In this day and age, I think it is 100% commendable for you to have this view and I respect you for it. STD’s are very scary and you live with lots of them the rest of your life (herpes, genital warts, Hepatitis, HIV).
In the girls point of view, I would want to make sure my BF was totally attracted by me and not him using the excuse of wanting to wait because he was not really that into me, ya know?
If sex is that important to her, she is probably a nympho and has been with too many guys in the first place. Most ‘normal’ females don’t have near the sex drive that guys do, it is more of an emotional bonding that they crave.
So, show her tons of attention and affection
ps…..God is proud of your decision to be a ‘stand up’ guy
I would respect his wishes. Along the line I think he would give in and have sex. To me personally, I think sex makes the relationship a little more spicy.
yes, i would respect him for that choice cuz if you really love someone your willing to do anything for them. if your not that type of person however, and sex is a big deal to you then obviously you dont really love that person enough to respect their wishes.. if i made that choice i would want them to respect mi too.
Buh thats how i see things anyways, cuz when it come to my relationships i’m a very understanding girl an if i really like the guy i’ll do whatever make him happy and respect is the main thing in all relationships
Hell yeah and he would have more respect then any other guy I even looked at in my time.