Comments on: Dose anybody no how to save a marriage?

By: Mrs. Heather Schabby

Mrs. Heather Schabby — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 10:20:00 +0000

All you can really do is ask him to come back. Try sitting him down and explaining to him that you’re sorry about how things turned out between the two of you. Say that you married for better or worse, ’til death do you part, and you want to honor those vows. Ask him to give the marriage one more serious shot – with some counseling if necessary.

If he won’t come back, there’s nothing you can do about it though, unfortunately.

Good luck.

By: Say who

Say who — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 10:20:00 +0000

I’m confused, you first said he left then he asked you to come back and then you asked him to come back. Who left whom?
What was the fight about? Where did whichever one left go for that week?

By: amiboo

amiboo — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 10:20:00 +0000

It sounds to me like you both have a lot of growing up to do. What you are describing sounds like a little kid having a tantrum and this applies to both of you.

The only thing that will save the marriage is if you both grow up and start taking things seriously. No more, "No I don’t wanna and you can’t make me. So there!" You have to stop thinking about yourself and start thinking about the relationship as the most important thing – again, this applies to both of you.

By: MomtoAngels

MomtoAngels — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 10:20:00 +0000

How old are you two? You both sound quite young and not ready for marriage, especially since he moved out after only two months. If you are already having that many problems then your best bet is going to be to talk to a marriage counselor.

By: brown sugar

brown sugar — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 10:20:00 +0000

sound like both of you need to grow up and start acting like mature adults what was the fight about and what possessd you to just leave without tryin to work it out