Comments on: Do you consider people who save sex for marriage conservative?

By: slow rider

slow rider — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 10:23:30 +0000

Do you mean politically conservative? No. There are many reasons for saving sex for marriage. It seems to be the smart thing to do.

By: Miss Takes

Miss Takes — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 10:23:30 +0000

No…just smart.

By: Helicreature

Helicreature — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 10:23:30 +0000

Yes, and rather misguided.

By: prettypriyanka

prettypriyanka — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 10:23:30 +0000

no. i think its very sweet.

but i would take my guy out for a test drive. dont want to find out 6 months later i married a perv !

By: stupendous

stupendous — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 10:23:30 +0000

That is sort of like asking if you think someone that eats Chili is hot!

By: Cupcake's Back

Cupcake's Back — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 10:23:30 +0000

I Think it’s smart
instead of just let anyone who tells you ” I love you ” have it, Just leave it to the one who really deserves you and you know he’ll stay with you afterword until marriage =). Instead of wasting it on people who are just gonna leave you.
and what’s the difference between dating and marriage, If your gonna let them have it anyway ?
it’s better to keep it after marriage that way Theres a difference between dating and marriage for you & You know they guy is The One For You and hes not just in the Relationship for the (Sex).

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By: Jen

Jen — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 10:23:30 +0000

It is conservative and not a bad idea. Some people like indiscriminate sex or "test driving" and it does not seem to help them with a relationship.
–The person that you are with must be dedicated to more than just "sex". Since any that choose to date you will know this it will narrow those just wanting to "test drive" you.
You will get replies that will be to the contrary but you are either approaching the age and are curious or are there and have managed to elude peer pressure.
–You can not listen to others that have opposite ideas. What do they know right! They have given up their "prize" so would have no way of knowing unless they have been there. This should be the ones you seek advice from.
–Then you still are the only one that can make that decision. You can just go with the flow and never know, be part of the crowd, or make your on way in life.
–I still think that a relationship based on things other than sex is a true relationship. Sex is just the result of animalistic desires. This can be with or without affection.
–Love is the desire of human nature and includes affection, caring, and feelings. When there is love and sex there is no match.
–I hope you make a choice you will feel was the right one 50 years from now.