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Comment on How to Deal With Marriage Separation and Stop Divorce?Please help me!? by Popa Doc

Popa Doc — Fri, 02 Mar 2012 18:54:08 +0000

Its not easy when divorcing. YOu have to balance how to be a father and how to move on at the same time. Counseling is the best answer. You should also get information on child support too.

Comment on I cant stop cheating on my husband i want a divorce (children invloved)? by the Alpha Agency

the Alpha Agency — Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:59:28 +0000

Really, you need to get the divorce and let your man have a chance to have a life. But, I would confront him first and see if there is anything he can do to help you.

One suggestion could be for him to put a GPS tracker on your car and he can monitor where you go. Maybe this will help you some, who knows.

we have a rental program or even a buy back program for them.

Comment on Marriage Counseling : How to Cuddle by sougou

sougou — Tue, 08 Nov 2011 13:55:29 +0000

THANKS

Comment on Marriage Counseling : What to Do When Your Marriage Is Falling Apart by psychotherapy practice

psychotherapy practice — Sat, 06 Aug 2011 16:12:11 +0000

Very nice video. It is great that you suggest to try marriage therapy. I’ve read a lot of blogs about how marriage counseling does not work. Very few couples resolve problems on their own and need a licensed therapist to offer them a path on how to address issues. Thanks for the post.

Comment on how do i stop my parents from getting a divorce? by jjgirl

jjgirl — Sun, 27 Mar 2011 17:06:49 +0000

My parents just told me they were getting a divorce! They were married for 16 years! I’m 15, I can’t stop crying and thinking of how they ruined my life, is there any thing I can do to stop them from getting a divorce

Comment on Did you stop making contributions to your 401(K) plan when it became clear that divorce was inevitable? by abc

abc — Wed, 15 Dec 2010 01:03:59 +0000

I didn’t, but then I didn’t plan to split it with him either; if you are going to divorce and you have to split your 401k, stop contributing…..get yourself a good lawyer, and I don’t mean get one lawyer for both of you; get a lawyer that just represents your interests

Comment on Did you stop making contributions to your 401(K) plan when it became clear that divorce was inevitable? by Zeep

Zeep — Wed, 15 Dec 2010 01:03:59 +0000

No. In hindsight, there are all sorts of things I’d do to grab money before my ex spent it on lawyers, because her doing so drove the cost of my divorce up tens of thousands of unnecessary dollars. I would’ve taken the whole savings account instead of half; I did all the saving anyway while she did all the spending. I wouldn’t have paid for her cable TV because my lawyer said don’t take away anything the kids use. Ditto for the cell phone bills I shouldn’t have paid or the entertainment center my ex got for me as a gift – I’d have taken it with me.

But I don’t really see the point of stopping your contributions. You’re going to have to divide all your assets 50/50, including what’s in the 401K. What’s the difference where the money is when you split it up?

One thing I did do when it became clear that divorce was possible was refinance from a 15-year to 30-year mortgage so that my wife could afford to live in the house post-divorce without demanding alimony. That worked for both of us.

Comment on Have you ever tried to stop your spouse from filing for divorce? by CM

CM — Sun, 12 Dec 2010 19:15:35 +0000

He knows your intentions. He is stalling for a reason. I think he has a girlfriend, and sees you when he is lonely or needs familiar company. Move on !!! You are wasting your life waiting on him to get off the pot !!

Comment on Have you ever tried to stop your spouse from filing for divorce? by arealqt26

arealqt26 — Sun, 12 Dec 2010 19:15:35 +0000

I know that when I was going through our divorce in my state NY if you are still sleeping together then you want to contest the divorce you can do it. But eventually he will get the divorce if he wants it.

Comment on Have you ever tried to stop your spouse from filing for divorce? by Colleen O

Colleen O — Sun, 12 Dec 2010 19:15:35 +0000

Nope, but I wwas the one who filed. You can’t stop someone from filing for divorce. All you can do is when you are served the papers is to contest it.