can i stop my divorce?
my wife filed for divorce is there any way to stop or delay it to try to get her back. i did nothing wrong and i love her. if we can stop it can we get the money back
she is bipolar and her family is telling her im no good because i got laid off. i just got a new job the day she gave me the papers i cant live without her she is my life and im going crazy she took our son and moved an hour away ill do anything
i did do things wrong i should have tried harder to get a job put in more aplications spent another hour going and talking to managers. in our town a huge factory shut down there are almost no jobs. itried so hard i told her i loved her every day she promised forever no matter what. i know im a good husband i miss them but all she does is lie to me
she hates my family because she thinks they hate her but they didnt they do now because they see me in so much pain. im willing to leave this town as long as she comes with me ill work as hard as she wants me to i love her unconditionally i paid off her 2000 dollar credit card and she moved out 2 days later after telling me she was going to the mall with her sister. i feel as low as i can be
i am in an incredible amount of pain i tried counseling when she left the first time it was a fialure this is the second time she has left she says she cant live this way i have tried my best and i am falling apart. she is my life without her i am hollow all thats left is pain
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umm no, there is a reason she is divorcing you. And by you saying you did nothing wrong is just plain stupid. Whatever you did or did not do to make her want to divorce you is what is going to ruin every relationship for you because you do not want to admit to your faults, so how are you going to do better!
talk to her her and tell her how you feel
Wow sooo many details to sift through, you’ll get great answers!
Can’t get any back money,
but, if you are able to get through to your wife’s heart
you can stop the divorce.
Good luck
im not sure but i think the person who files is the only one who can stop it.
Are you sure you did nothing wrong?.. Maybe because you did nothign she wants out?.. Idk but thats really sad and i hope things work out for you.. divorces are hard.. the least thing on ur mind should be the money.. =\
About the only thing left that you can do is hire an attorney and file a counter suit. Have him drag his feet. Doing this is likely not going to win back your wife however. I’d just spend as much time as possible trying to convince her how much I wanted her and how I made a terrible mistake. (even though you don’t think you did) It’s time to crawl a little.
Hi!
The only way you can stop your divorce going ahead would be for your wife to retract her petition, so I would say you’ve got some serious talking to do if she is adamant that’s what she wants. But no, you won’t get any money back. Your solicitor, has after all, acted on your behalf and he/she should still be paid for the work they’ve done so far.
Most attorneys will NOT refund on divorce if you change your mind.
you sound so sweet.. just talk to her. let her know that her parents knows nothing about you and they don’t have decision on whether you two should be together or not. your both adults.. you’ll do anything to get her back? i wish i could hear my husband say something like that.. thats very sweet and shows that you really love her and your kid.. good luck man
Have you tried a counselor. Ask her to leave it a trial separation, see a counselor, find out what she is really feeling.
Also get a lawyer. If you want to protect your rights to see your son, and any reflection of justice to you having a hand in how he is raised, get a lawyer.
I am sorry to hear this Thor. It is an incredibly painful thing to have happen. I wish you well.
Unfortunately you cannot stop it. You can only contest the divorce which will prolong it for a short time….She will be required to get a lawyer and if she doesn’t w/d the papers, it will become final eventually.
No, if you do w/d the divorce papers after you filed them with the court you do not get your money back.